I met this guy through an online dating agency ( gets worse doesnt it) we met, and we seemed to really hit it off, he seemed very taken with me and kept texting me , asking me to meet him etc, then after about 3 weeks he really cooled it off. I txt him and I said i had the feeling that he was no longer into me. he replied that he cant see us being in a relationship ( never explained why) but said that he think im really nice and that he liked me a lot.
he then txt and said he would like to stay in touch. I stupidly agreed to meet up and had sex with him a few times.
But then I drunk/dialed text,then, text apology for the texts and he was like no worries, he then txt me that his friend really fancied me and would like to meet up. I txt back angry and said that he was not my pimp. he apolgised, we texted more and he said see you 2007, i text him yesterday and he seemed friendly but did not suggest a meet up,i would be his friend with benefits, but unsure how to play this? HELP!
2007-01-10 21:16:31 · 17 answers · asked by raggyann 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont lower yourself. Seems like he is messing about with your feelings. On one hand he likes the idea of you wanting him, and so keeps leading you along, on the other hand he has no intentions of taking things further! Dont get yourself in any deeper, there are better people out there that will treat you right.
Find some one who appreicates you, easier said than done I know.....first hand! But they are out there x
2007-01-10 22:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your valuable time on a man who is blatantly not interested in you?
The comment about his friend should have you running for the hills. He just wants to pass you around like a piece of meat.....
Friend with benefits? In other words, you think so lowly of yourself, and are so desperate to continue contact with this man, that you would have 'no strings' sex with him, perhaps in the hope that he'll finally see what a great person you are and fall in love with you?
You deserve better than this. Have some self-esteem. There are far better men out there.
2007-01-10 21:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats what you want then fine, but he is not going to commit to a relationship with you, he proved that by telling you about his friend, I would decide what you want and then make the choice about whether you want casual sex or move on and find someone that cares properly and is looking for the same thing as you. I think because you like him, being his friend with benefits would hold you back from moving on, you deserve better!
2007-01-10 21:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by Denise H 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is married or just playing the field and having sex with all that will let him, it sounds like you gave it to him at the thought of losing him if you didnt. Forget him and go find someone that will love you for being you and not using you for a jump, We all do silly things when we are drunk so delete his number so you dont txt him again, as for his mate......probably just wants same as you gave his mate. they probably discussed it in the pub and had a good laugh at your expense. He sounds like a idiot, Move on.... Good luck
2007-01-10 21:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by Michele 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you no self-respect? Tell that story to your best friend and see what she says! Seriously, why are you even giving this clown the time of day? Text him back one last time - tell him he was a really rotten s**g and that he should go and do his mate himself. Then go out and buy yourself some new shoes and get back on top of the world where you belong.
2007-01-10 21:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
what can i say,open your eyes! the key word here is the third to last in your question and in the game of life there is always losers. Remember not everyone plays by the rules.B careful! bye from Canada P.S Don,t " Play " this one, lose this one.
2007-01-10 21:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by whitewinged1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time,he's just using you and if he's playing around like that who knows what you'll catch from him.come on the guy try to pass you on to his friend why would you want to stay in touch with him???? be strong.there are a ton of people better out there for you..
2007-01-10 21:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by nitro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR FIRST MESS UP IS TRYING TO DATE ON-LINE. I MEAN GET FOR REAL.IT LOOKS TO ME LIKE ALL YOU R IN HIS EYES IS A LAY. STOP TEXTING HIM. DON'T YOU GET IT HE SAID SEE YA. THAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN ENOUGH RIGHT THERE. YOU CAN CHASE HIM IF YOU WANT TO BUT THE ONLY THING YOUR DOING IS MAKING AN *** OUT OF YOUR SELF. WHAT YOU NEED IS A LITTLE SELF RESPECT.
2007-01-10 21:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by lovinonly#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid!! Don't let him continue to use u. You deserve better hun. We've all made stupid mistakes so jus put it down to experience n move on. Good luck x x
2007-01-10 23:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being a mug if you think anything is going to come of this. If i'd cut my losses and go for the next guy.
2007-01-10 21:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by hugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋