2007-01-10 21:17:26 · 9 answers · asked by raven_and_sarah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
My condolences. i know how that feels. i found a way to kind of deal with my miscarriages. i write poems about them, kind of like talking to the children i have lost in my poems. you have to let yourself grieve and if someone is willing to be there for you talk to them. losing a child is a horrible experience and the pain will never fully go away but there are ways to deal with it.
2007-01-10 21:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by blackqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no answer for that. I've worked in a hospital where we have lost children, some we had grown close to. I have never had the misfortune of losing a child or baby, I cant imagine what you are going through.
I believe that some counseling and support from a pastor may be helpful to you. God Bless and I hope you find some healing.
2007-01-10 21:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by cinnamon_n_spice97 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of great answers here... I would add that if you call your hospital they probably have seminars or group sessions you could join to meet some others and try to get through it.
You can also try this link: http://www.onceuponalife.com/forums/archive/index.php/t-931.html it is a support forum where you can read other women's comments and post your own if you are ready.
So sorry for your loss.
2007-01-14 19:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My "baby" is 26, but if I lost him, I would still grieve deeply. I'd cry, or scream, or curse, or do whatever it took, and still it would take a very long time. Do whatever YOU need to do to get through this time.
You have my sincere sympathy for your loss.
2007-01-10 21:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My condolences. :(
It's as the first poster said, the only way you can deal with a tragic loss such as this is with time. And don't be afraid to try again.
2007-01-10 21:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With time .. i hated that cliche and believe me you will get through this ...It is natural to feel the way you are i pushed away all the support which was offered .Take each days as it comes and grieve and let your tears flow i refuse to cry as crying would make it real in my eyes.... I tried to understand why and eventually let my hubby in .... you have my heartfelt sympathy and you are in my thoughts xxxxx
2007-01-11 05:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by sammie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so very sorry. Only time will heal your heart. Don't be afraid to try again. Good luck and God bless
2007-01-10 21:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lost my 1st bb during my 27th wks gestation mid 2005 aborted pregnancy due to foetus ceased his heartbeat... i was real sad, down, depressed, emotional... i got over it as time heals it all... i conceived agn last yr & now, bb seth is now 5mths old, healthy & fun! i hope time heals ur pain too...
2007-01-10 21:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by angi_wee2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realy realy sad
2007-01-10 21:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋