If you look at my previous question you will see that I have real self-esteem and confidence issues due to losing the one I loved...I actually suspect she left me for a much more attractive guy. Since then I have began to feel really insecure about my pysical appearane (but i guess i always have anyway). Its difficult for me to even look in the mirror sometimes...
I want to try and move on..but it's really difficult when you feel this way..when I feel self-concious infront of women.
Please, am I really ugly as I think I am? I need opinions...
http://uk.360.yahoo.com/my_profile-YnJk_o09frHa4yBV6y9LNGKiWul7Uey2KA--?cq=1
2007-01-10 21:16:56 · 9 answers · asked by L666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go to the gym.....and eat more.....go shopping buy a couple of pairs of diesel jeans and change your entire image.....Ok I just looked at your profile....Your nose is a bit on the large side.... and you look scrawny.....So suppose and it pains me to tell you....Yes you are not the most attractive guy....Dont get me wrong you arent pig ugly ....you are Qwerky......
Having read some of the comments.....You have no idea on what these women look like or base their oppinion on.....
And there will always be someone better looking than you or me....
2007-01-10 21:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you're fishing for compliments. If you though you were that ugly you wouldn't have posted your 360 link. The most attractive people in the world are the ones who are always smiling and happy. It's not always about physical appearance. You need to work on your confidence.
2007-01-11 06:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey chick, we all have low self esteem, u have to kick back and get on with things. ur loved one left u, was probably not because she thought u was ugly, she wouldnt of gone out with u in the first place would she, some relationships end as it may of been getting to serious or may of not had enough forfillment, ur probably a really nice guy u just need to believe in urself and get on with ur life.
get urself some new aftershave and a new image and go and paint the town red.
good luck
2007-01-11 05:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop putting yourself down. Beauty is the eye of the beholder and there is someone out there just waiting for you, only you haven't met her yet, but don't worry, you will and it will be when you least expect it so cheer up and look forward to a bright future. Good Luck and God Bless !!!
2007-01-14 20:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lewis are you taking the pi*s or what?i just looked at your pics and you are freaking sexy![i wanted to say cute,but it would have probably annoyed you]any way don't feel insecure your lovely,I'm 29 and in England,and I'm thinking this girl of yours just isn't worth all this hurt,I'm being really honest with you your attractive,dont worry what anyone else thinks of you.ta-tar ,cutie!,[oh my god i cant beleve what that man above me said the little shite]xxxxxxxxx
2007-01-11 05:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by karen. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dear friend; you and i are in the same boat.I'm guessing I'm a lot older than you.it hurts loosing the one you love.but its not your fault;if she wants to move on; just let her.now you have to do the same.the secret i have learnt; when being in front of women is; the image of them with no cloths on.and you become the best looking guy in the world.your shyness just goes.
2007-01-11 05:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gt self esteem n confidence, thats enough. my bf too left me 4 that purpose bt now i thnk that i mayb ugly bt im witty. so dear i really believe that u r with beauty in the mind rather than on face which is deceptive anyways!!!!!
2007-01-11 05:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
even the coolest ppl sometimes doubt themselves ..n mayhaps u feel unattractive becoz of your break up is becoz u have yet to truly let it go ...try to participate in more activities to widen your social circles and know other gals ! theres still lottas cute gal out there !!
Ps : Dont worry , u look cute ..even more so when playing the guitar :D
2007-01-11 05:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by Cassie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there u hav it m8 ! i posted a similar question the other day jst askin women what they thought ! they started calling me names lol ! tellin me t get a life ! it was jst a question n e way im jst gonna tag along on ur question ! ladies what do ya think - jakedawake.hi5.com
2007-01-11 09:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by jakedawake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋