My live-in boyfriend of 3 years has been caught 10-11 times having phone sex via chat programs on his cell phone. This started only 3 months after he moved in with me. He downloads these chat programs on his phone and uses them to seek out women to have phone sex with WHILE HE'S AT WORK (because he can't do it when he's at home obviously). He's run his cell phone bill up to over $900 several times because of this, due to the sheer number of text messages. The calls start at 6AM when he gets to work, and stop around 5PM just before he leaves work, every single day except Sunday, when he's off work...and there are THOUSANDS of text messages per month.
I keep catching him, and he keeps apologizing and saying he'll never do it again. To my knowledge, it's been about 3 months since the last time he did anything like this, and I'm trying so hard to believe he's truly stopped this ridiculous behavior. But I don't know that I can ever stop being suspicious. How would you handle this?
2006-12-11
02:53:05
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Heather C
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Marriage & Divorce