My husband and I have been together for almost a decade. He claims I'm the person he loves the most in the world. He thinks the ideal life would be us together with our cat for the rest of our days. He wants to travel the world and just enjoy each other's company. He thinks a baby would bring unnecessary stress into our lives. He has no desire to become a father whasoever. I, on the other hand, want nothing more than to have a family, with kids, not just cats. He thinks I'm selfish for wanting a baby, he says I'm only considering my needs. I think he is selfish for not wanting to give me one. I thouhgt that if a guy really loved a woman, he would want to have her baby. It's not like we're teenagers and just met each other. I love him very much, but I don't know what to do anymore. We're seeing a couple's counselor, but we can't seem to get anywhere. He thinks I'm pressuring him, and I think he's robbing me of the most meaningful experience I could have. What do I do? Help me please!!
2006-11-30
01:43:51
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amaya m
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Marriage & Divorce