Am married for 4 years & found out hb have a more than 6 mth long office affair + internet girfriends 3mths ago & probably had been having affairs on and off for the pass 3 yrs. I filed for divorce & he ask me to reconsider when the lawyers's letter reach him, for our 1 year old son. He agreed to see a consellor and claim he is no longer having the affair. Problem is, he lied about the duration of the affair and is wishy washy on when it started/ end. I know for a fact it is still going on 3 weeks ago. He has since put a password on his hand phone so I can't verify whether he is telling the truth.
Shd I still go ahead and try conselling to see if the marriage can be salvage or is it just gonna to be a waste of time? we have loads of other problems beside the affair, including his tendency to be verbally and emotionally abusive. (in fact, that have reduced after he started having affairs - his lover seems to be getting quite a bit of that) My son adore him, hence my dilema.
2006-10-24
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