i had a miscairrage oct 7th when can i start trying to get prego again?

Question

i had a miscairrage oct 7th the first day of my last period was sept 3rd. is it to soon to try to get pregnant again? because i think i might be. will the baby be handicap cause i didn't let my body heal? i am so scared, i m 27 and this would be my first. i dont wanna share my feelings with family. SO SO confused please help thanks

Answer 1

My dr.suggested me wait 3 months and then try...i think u should also wait dont take the risk

Answer 2

First things First..

Relax. If you are pregnant, the best thing for this baby is for you to stay relaxed.



I had a m/c on the 7th of Oct also, so I know how you are feeling. It sounds like you had a very early mc/ like myself. I was informed by my doctor that it was ok to try again this month because I didn't have to have to D&C.

If you did not have a D&C then you should be fine to try again this month and not have to wait 6 to 8 to 3 months.

Your body will let you know if you are not ready after an early m/c.

If you are pregnant your child should be perfectly fine. Nothing should be wrong because you "didn't let yourself heal".
If your body isn't ok, you MAY m/c again but if it was an early m/c then there shouldn't be an issue. If you carry to term, your baby should be fine.

From on TTC to another.. good luck!

Answer 3

I had a miscarriage on 10/11/03 and started trying the next month but my obgyn told me not to try for at least 3 months after. It gives your body time to heal and to provide a healthy environment for you baby for the next 9 months. But if you are trying to conceive or are currently pregnant again go get on prenatal vitamins. If you miscarried oct. 7th I dont believe that you would have even ovulated by now and you def. should go see a obgyn to be sure that your not just experiencing periods w/ pregnancy. I'm sorry for your loss and wish you luck

Answer 4

When to try again after a miscarriage


When is it safe to try again? This is one of the most common questions couples face after a miscarriage. While some not ready to think about trying again for a long while, others find comfort in continuing to try to conceive again without delay -- especially those couples who were already trying to get pregnant. Either reaction is perfectly normal.

If you are one of those who are anxious to try again right away, it can be difficult to get a straight answer on when it's safe to keep trying. Ask three different doctors and you'll likely get three different answers...likely the following:

Three to six months

This is the most common response. Being the traditional, by-the-book answer, some doctors will often give this advice for all patients following a miscarriage without adjusting it to suit individual circumstances. In some cases, it may make sense to wait for a few months after a loss. If the pregnancy was further along, it could be that your body does need some time to replenish lost nutrients. If you had a D&C, your doctor may feel it's best to wait in order to be sure your uterine lining properly replenishes itself.

However, in cases such as a very early "chemical" pregnancy or a loss at 5-6 weeks, it is hard to make a case that the body truly needs three months to recover when in many of these cases, a woman might not even know she had miscarried if she was not actively trying for a baby at that point.

After your first normal period

Some doctors feel it is safe to try again without a long waiting period after a loss, but they recommend waiting one cycle for the first normal menstrual period. The reasoning behind this is that they have an easier time dating a pregnancy with a last menstrual period as a reference. Since ovulation may not occur on a normal schedule after bleeding from a miscarriage, they feel waiting for a normal period will help date a pregnancy should it occur right away.

Right away...if you feel ready

Some doctors believe that, for most women, there is no medical reason to wait at all. According to this school of thought, once the bleeding ceases, it's fine to continue trying. These doctors do not worry overly about the problem of dating the pregnancy since ultrasound can be used if the dates are uncertain.

How to know what to do

Obviously, it is best to have your doctor's stamp of approval on your plans to try again, since you will need to seek prenatal care when you do get pregnant again. If your doctor recommends a long wait and you prefer not to wait, ask for a thorough explanation on why he or she is recommending that course of action. Find out if there are specific reasons in your medical situation why your doctor feels it is best to wait. If there are no specific reasons, ask if your doctor feels there is any major risk to trying again right away. Often, the answer may be no.

Be sure to give yourself the time you need to grieve, however. Do not discount your feelings of loss, and be sure to examine whether you really do need some time before jumping back into the ups and downs of trying to conceive. No matter what any doctor says about your physical readiness, only you and your partner truly know how long you need before you are emotionally ready.

Answer 5

From experience I would wait at least until you have had 2 normal periods. After my 1st loss I didnt wait and got pg after 1 period and I ended up losing that baby too because my uterus was not strong enough. Then I waited 3 months and got pregnant with my daughter. Sorry for your loss.

Answer 6

I had a miscarriage and my dr told me to wait another month until my period was normal. So we waited a month and tried again. I didn't get pregnant again until 3 months later and I have a wonderful healthy 1 year old boy.

Answer 7

Give yourself at least 6-8 months. You have to let your body heal. It's very likely that if you get pregnant within the next couple of months, you will miscarry again. And realistically, you don't want to go through that emotional rollercoaster.

Answer 8

i had a still born/miscarriage/abortion all in one. had to have the abortion, cause i was getting an infected uterus. i was 5 months along. my doc told me to wait 3 normal periods.

if you miscarried earlier then like 2 months, u can try right away, but anything past the second trymestered is far enough and they want u to wait at least three months.

Answer 9

No i don't think it's too early and when you feel that you r ready then go for it but i don't think your baby wil be handicap because your body works differently so you will just have to wait and see and ?or talk to your doctor about this he?she will know more then i do.

Answer 10

If you had a spontaneous miscarriage without any prolonged bleeding, you will ovulate within two to four weeks after the miscarriage. Most miscarriages are complete, and if you did not have any infection symptoms (fever, discharge, excessive bleeding) after your pregnancy loss, it should not affect your attempts at becoming pregnant at all. Good luck!

http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/aftermiscarriage.html