My husband and I have had a VERY strained realationship the last few years. Everything from major health issues (I had cancer diagnosed only a couple months after we were married) to financial issues, running a family business together, two children under 3 and his mother passed away a few months ago.
He syas he needs space to figure out what he wants. He won't talk to me about anything. He says I amhis best friend etc but not "in" love with me...ever! He syas he loves me and the kids buit doens't feel connected to any of us. He says I would be better off to find somene else who could show me love. What he means is that he can't enjoy any good things. Playing with the children, doing things as a couple etc.
He is gone to our friends wedding (he is in it) this week. I promised I would not call or write but it is so hard. My heart physcially is aching in my chest.
I can't focus on the kids (I'm on here aren't i?) What do I do?
2006-09-30
00:49:06
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Sandra C
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Marriage & Divorce