I wrote a couple weeks ago, wanting to leave my husband of 20 years, lots of screaming at me and the kids, controlling issues, etc. WELL, I told him I wasn't happy- big leap for me!! He needed to be told 4 times over a week before he really believed there was a big problem. I told him I was sick of the way we lived, I'd leave , we could share custody of the 16 YO. NOW he wants to know what he can do, buy me a new diamond?, How can he change? What will it take? Here is where I need help.
After all these years of fighting, the yelling and controlling behavior
I just feel done here. I feel bad, as he's said I'm his "whole world".
He's walking around with the "heartbroken look" and I am starting to feel bad for him. I don't feel the same about him, still have some love for him, but not "in love" with him.
Well, why didn't he realize this before? Too many years of unhappiness and I feel if I stay, he'll just revert at a later time and nothing will change. Why do I feel bad?
2006-09-30
00:49:47
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