We are in our 30s with 2 children.
After our 2nd daughter was born 3 years ago - sex became less and less frequent between us.
We are down to about 4 or 5 times a year. The last time was the "scheduled" sex on our anniversary in July.
I need more!
I've tried talking to him - asked if he was seeing someone else, asked if he wanted to see a doctor, go to counseling, even Viagra!
He is not interested in doing anything.
He says he loves me - and i know he does...he just has zero sex drive.
I have been working out the past 2 years, and weigh less now than I did when we were married. (size 8 now)...
If he is not willing to change or seek help - What can i do?
There is a neighbor of ours who is black - he has shown interest in me. I'll admit that is a major fantasy of mine - but at this point, I dont care WHAT color the man is! I want SEX!!
If i have been this patient for my husband to come around - when is it finally ok to get the "attention" elsewhere?
2006-09-18
18:09:39
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