We have been together for 2 years, I moved out of state to join her, she is three years older than I and more conservative.
We have the same fights about helping around the house and chores and using time wisely. She constantly has a nissue with me and not being assertive and helping out around the house. I have tried and done some chores and errands but still she only focuses on things that havn't been done not ojn what I have done.
I don't know if it's me or that she is just stressed out with her own issues. I try to confront and ask if she is ok or what is bothering her, she makes it seem as though nothing is wrong but I can tell that there is. Another thing is that it seems easy for her to give up, she will simply say : " Fine your right and everythong is perfect" When I know I'll be paying for it later. I try and try to find out whats wrong, and eventually she gets so frustrated that I am constantly asking and prodding , she tells me and here comes the same old arguments. help?
2006-07-07
15:10:49
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