This has been bothering me since it happened at my boyfriend's family's Christmas party on Christmas Eve.
My bf and I have been dating for almost 2 years and I know his family well. He has one aunt who is very annoying and extremely nosey (we'll call her Aunt P).
At the Christmas party, the cousins pass around an adorable family picture taken the day before. At this, someone gets the idea that the grandparents should have their picture taken with my bf's family. Since my bf and I are only dating, I decided to stay seated while they were all getting situated for their picture (I'm not in the family yet, lol!). My bf's stepmother and his SIL thought I should be included. I protested, but they insisted (as did my bf). We took a few pictures and afterwards, not to my surprise, Aunt P looked at my bf and said "Oh, [bf's name], you didn't tell me y'all were engaged! Have you set a date yet?" loud enough for the entire family to hear. She knew perfectly well that we aren't engaged and simply wanted to show her disapproval of me being in the family picture. This may have been bad on my part, but I shot her my infamous “look” (as my mother calls it), held up my left hand, and said “Do you see something I don’t?!?”. She didn’t say anything else.
Looking back, I probably could’ve handled this better. What would you have done?
2007-12-31
07:51:47
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