Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - October 2006

what do you think???

2006-10-22 19:19:22 · 15 answers · asked by nikolakis 3

What is the word for if you feel attracted romantical;y toward someone who is gay?

2006-10-22 17:56:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

even though I have protested what I considered inappropriate violation notices....heard nothing...nada....anyone else?

2006-10-22 17:37:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a relationship with a guy and I have always been bi-curious and wanted to experience a another girl, but in my fantasy it was me and the girl with him watching or me with the girl and him behind me. And he was fine with that. But he now talks about wanting to have me and another girl but he wants to give it to her but doesn't want me to have another man but him. Then he says "Well, I don't think I would have a problem with you with another guy. Which I think is crap that he is saying to bring me to submit and let him have intercourse with another girl. I honestly do not want him giving another girl the same pleasure as he gives to me and he truly does not want me to recieve the same pleasure from a man other than him. I think it is not the same for a girl to be with a girl (no penetration), just like I could not do to him what a man could, if he was bi. Why can't he just sit back and enjoy what pleasure I can give to her while he gets his pleasure from me and watching?

2006-10-22 17:08:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think if did tell theme they wont like me anymore

2006-10-22 16:06:34 · 18 answers · asked by fame4000 3

My best friend is straight and i rele like him, but i dont want to ruin our friendship. Everytime im with him i want to flirt and with him but i dont want to weird him out.

2006-10-22 15:27:37 · 22 answers · asked by Fresca0720 1

Just to tell us how wrong and evil and hellbound it is?
I know this question is redundant, but anything to get away from the day-to-day droll.

2006-10-22 15:24:45 · 36 answers · asked by Agent Double EL 5

For those of you who are gay, do you show your pride at all? I want to show mine but be discreet about it. Not because I'm afraid of what people will think, but more afraid of the ignorant people. I just want to show it subtly in a way that other gay people would catch on...any ideas?

2006-10-22 15:21:19 · 17 answers · asked by JR 5

My problem is that I'm a straight guy, but I talk like I'm gay. I have friends who are gay, and I have no problem with gay people, and I think they rock, but I don't like constantly being asked if I am gay because of the way I talk. It isn't blatent, but there are the underlying subtones and the little nuances and accents that just make me sound that way... I would like to fix this.

2006-10-22 15:02:44 · 10 answers · asked by Chistery 1

Are any of you lesbians by choice?
My last Q seems to have drawn some one or two knee-jerk reactions. I posed the question twice, which some people completely ignored.... Are some by choice? Are you by choice, a lesbian? Or you can NOT help it? That's all I wanted to know. Let me clarify... Yes, I've been in an all female college and I observed plenty! I like the way they look-masculine, and yes, some don't look masculine and they were paired up! I DO realize those generalizations, but You have to start with generalizations to create theories! What my aim was to test that hypothesis, but in no way did I expect a bludgeon hurling at me! Can I ask a question without being told I'm an idiot? I am merely info-seeking, not JUDGMENTAL! If you can't rationally read a question and think of a more reasoned reply, please don't reply!--Because I was in a study-mode, not a judgmental mode! Sorry truly to those kindhearted people out there I may have accidentally offended... :(

2006-10-22 14:20:57 · 24 answers · asked by summation 2

...then that must mean that being straight is a choice too, right? I'm heterosexual and I don't remember ever saying "hey, I think I'll be straight."

Any "anti-gays" willing to explain this? Is being gay really a choice? Come on, bible-thumpers, here's your chance to get your holy little hands on an extra ten points. I know that you gay bashers love to browse this section all the time, so this question is perfect for the selected section.

If I can't get an answer to justify why being gay is choice, then at least post something. Bored as hell here...

2006-10-22 14:18:01 · 20 answers · asked by aPimpNamedBob 2

I dont have problems meeting women. Infact Ive had a couple girlfriends, and yes a lot of opportunity to have sex. The problem is I havent taken them. Ive been brought up catholic, and think premartial sex is dirty, and subconsciously define the act of "sex" as with exclusive between a man and a woman. I bring this up because I dont have problems getting oral sex from men. For me, Im just having fun and not participating in it.. (SAD, and Illogical, but thats how I think of it) Also, with the STDs these days, its almost a life and death situation who youd sleep with. Believe me I tried hard to fix my way of thinking but its hard to go against your grain. So im wondering if all this mental inhibitions in my mind would turn me gay soon. What do you think? I dont mean any offense to any gay person. Im just asking for advice. thanks!

2006-10-22 14:15:19 · 14 answers · asked by dustin m 1

We just started talkin bout a month ago and tonight she admitted she has a crush on at least 2 other people. I was hurt... I aint even gon try to act hard! Bcuz I thought If she agreed to b in a relationship with me then I should be tha only one she is attracted to or have special feelings about. Im just hurt right now. Should I break up with her bcuz that attraction and those feelings gon be there. And I aint tryna get hurt even more than I am later on. Any suggestions on what I should do?

2006-10-22 14:14:23 · 10 answers · asked by texas_420_stud 1

im kinda wondering if i should tell my family/friends that im bi. im 13, female, 8th grade, and have been secretly bi for 1 1/2 yrs.one person from my family is a lesbian and one close friend from school is bi too. my cuzin lesbian, they are uneasy around her[my family] and i dont want my family too be uneasy around me. my familyare christains and they will bombbard me w/ bible stuff about the homosexuals. should i tell my family?School: when my school friend told our friends they got freaked out and have been uneasy around her ever since. i dont want them too do that too me. some ppl have told me that i shouldnt tell ne1 at all but i kinda fell i have too, then i dont wanna tell them. so should i tell them [ family/friends]? if i should; how should i tell them? help plz?! and dont tell me im too young too be bi. thanx=]

2006-10-22 14:10:29 · 6 answers · asked by Taylor c 1

answer, the phrase "narrowminded bigot" is used over and over again?

2006-10-22 13:58:36 · 16 answers · asked by Bastet's kitten 6

Lesbian: greater chance of finding love?
I mean no offense and I really am interested in lesbianism as a study and to understand my motives for being interested. My motive for asking this question is: when I observe lesbians, they aren't usually the most physically attractive... Do you think that being lesbian could POSSIBLY be a CHoice? What I mean is, are some lesbians...lesbians because they are rejected by men? My speculation is that lesbians are androgynous in general, which means... they are neither very feminine or very masculine. They are actually and surprisingly versatile and both. I think the average lesbian could possibly be more intellectually inclined than heterosexual average female. And because if the closet lesbian is presented to the general male population, since she is androgynous, will NOT be generally appealing over average very feminine women. What do you all think of all this? Anything you find you agree? Please, my only aim is to understand IF there possibly

2006-10-22 13:54:03 · 14 answers · asked by summation 2

I think it's stupid and should be stopped immediately. How bout u?

2006-10-22 13:18:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have many lesbian friends and it seems like many of them have a very deep seated hate for men. Why is that and why do so many of them mimick men in their lives such as being overly masculine in dress and stature?

2006-10-22 12:49:57 · 23 answers · asked by Crampy Grampy 4

So I have been dating this guy for 7 months now...at first he was very into me and I was kinda just going along with the flow not completely sure about where the relationship was going, but recently I have found myself becomming more and more in love with him. We have already told each other that we love one another, but it seems as if his love for me has kind of cooled down a bit. He isn't eager to tell me about his day, or tell me the sweet things that he used to tell me. We do spend lots of time with one another, almost every day, and I feel that he might have started to feel smothered, or bored with this relationship. I ask him if he is happy with this relationship and he says yes...he also doesn't feel like any thing is wrong, except for the fact that I bring this subject up too often and has gotten annoyed with it. This hurts me but I dont want to leave him or for him to leave me. Is time apart good in this situation? What can we do to get through this "rough patch"?

2006-10-22 12:25:55 · 10 answers · asked by QuickBrownFox 1

come to our site to try and save us when we don't need to be saved?? I have never been more whole and happier in my life...why should they care?

2006-10-22 12:25:01 · 15 answers · asked by Lipstick 6

with our lifestyle....are they threated by us and if so why? If they think we're going to hell then why should they care?

2006-10-22 12:20:27 · 19 answers · asked by Lipstick 6

Ok, so I am considering being lesbian as a way to belong. I don't mean to make this a socio-political issue that stirs people up (so please don't make it). It's just a personal expression and I feel somewhat vulnerable being so open... When I was young and foolish, I dated white guys, to see how I fit in the culture. But I know at least where I am, white people are the majority and the old class haven't fully opened to asians. Asian opinion prompts "Well, if you're don't agree, go back to your country" sort of replies. So, can't have an opinion openly w/o being put in my place as a foreigner I feel like a loner in a majority world. I am struggling to find belonging in this society. I don't want to be further marginalized by being lesbian, but I know I can find community within the smaller culture of lesbians. I want empowerment as a woman, not asian! I want people to see me for who I AM, not see my face! Ok, I am not depressed. I am fine. But at times, I feel down about it all

2006-10-22 11:57:17 · 22 answers · asked by summation 2

I am a guy who just happens to have the need for the support that a bra offers.

2006-10-22 11:56:14 · 15 answers · asked by Jay 1

I am a happily married woman and deeply in love with my husband. I have never had feelings for a woman, or desired to be in a relationship with one. However, I sometimes fantasize about messing around with a woman in front of my husband. Does having sexual fantasies about women make me bisexual, or does being bi-sexual mean that you can be in LOVE WITH either sex?

2006-10-22 11:53:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-22 11:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-22 11:49:59 · 17 answers · asked by poodle 4

2006-10-22 11:23:22 · 13 answers · asked by oldstalecheeks 2

How old were you when you realized that you were "gay"? How old were you when you "came out" to family and friends? What reactions did you get? I am curious.

2006-10-22 11:20:52 · 21 answers · asked by correrafan 7

Have you been to another country or a particular state that performed gay marriage, accepted gay parenting, and non-biased people?In your view, what is the most friendliest gay state and country? I am hoping for a serious, mature lesbian response. Any males or non-sense replies will be reported.

2006-10-22 11:07:29 · 8 answers · asked by RainDew 1

I'm a 30-year-old straight female, but I've had several friends who were gay men. They were awesome. I've not had any gay female friends, though. All the lesbians I have ever met have been nearly xenophobic (meaning that they strongly dislike anyone other than their own kind, gay women in this case). Why is that? Why are gay men so nice and lesbians so serious and unfriendly?

2006-10-22 11:06:32 · 11 answers · asked by Bastet's kitten 6