what do you think???
2006-10-22 19:19:22 · 15 answers · asked by nikolakis 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
both are bad news.
2006-10-22 19:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is far worse than being a lesbian. Having a girlfreind who likes ladies sems to be a lot of men's fantasies; but no one in a commited relationship should be cheating.
2006-10-22 19:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the definition of cheating by default includes a sexual relationship with another person -male or female. So, theoretically speaking, your girlfriend could be doing both at the same time - aka cheating you with another woman. In that case, I would suggest you ask them to join in.
2006-10-22 19:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by mortisia2121 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can assume right away it has nothing to do with your equipment. And if one of your fantasies involves more than one woman.... well, who knows, maybe they will both be interested. And beware, that could become very complicated.
AND if you do, use a condom.
OR move on. You obviously have something she likes, and other people will be interested in you, too. Don't take it as rejection, because the female she is attracted to is definitely not your competition. If you are looking for a hetero, she is not for you and its not meant to be. If she is physically experimenting, then she should have had the decency of breaking up with you first, face to face, as you deserve to have a relationship with someone decent.
2006-10-22 19:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kathryn H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the worst thing is to find out your girlfriend is cheating with me. And we're adopting kids.
2006-10-22 19:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by datcreekgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I could deal with it better if she was having a lesbian affair than with another man. Usually if they are having an affair with the oposite sex it is one of your relatives or friends. Besides that, if she was having a lesbian affair, then you stand the remote chance of letting you join them. My ex-wife emphasized to me that she was in a relationship with a woman one time, but she broke it off and went back to men when I told her how much it turned me on. I think that is why a lot of women that have affairs with women stop having them and go back to men eventually, because they find out that it turns men on so much, and if it turns men on, it is not that appealing to them, any more.
2006-10-22 21:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating on you is worse... that way you feel deceived.
At least if you found out she was a lesbian, there was nothing you could do about it, and i dont think it would hurt as muich as it would for her to be deceiving you.
But if she's been doign both... suggest that u JOIN IN!
2006-10-22 19:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by Elena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since my girlfriend is a lesbian, I would have to say cheating
2006-10-22 19:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
id be surpised to find out my girlfriend was a lesbian--- but my feminine side is lesbian so maybe we could work it out --- the cheating --we cant work out
2006-10-22 19:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok id def. have to say both are bad.. but think bout it this way... would u rather her cheat on u with another guy or another girl.. cuz in my opinion, if i was datin a guy and he cheated on me.. id much rather it be with another guy bc then i know.. that some girl wasnt pleasing him.. it was someone of the same sex... but thats jus my opinion.. so yea cheating is worse.. def.!
2006-10-22 19:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by SiMPLY ME<3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think finding out she is a lesbian is worse, because it seems to hit @ the core of your manhood suggesting that you werent man enough to please her so she had to go get it from another woman. if she leaves you for an other man you can always say that she was just a whore and good riddens!!
2006-10-22 19:36:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋