Every time we have another couple over for dinner (or even just a glass of wine and chat), they always write to my husband to say "thanks", but not to me. Sometimes, they don't even mention me.
Do you think this is rude? Last weekend, we had a couple over to dinner -- I bought a rather expensive bottle of wine and some specialty items for appetizers (with my own funds); cleaned the house, etc. When the "thank you" note came, they praised HIS cooking and HIS "exquisite taste in wine" and hosting skills, as if I wasn't there at all!
Do you think people just assume that the male half does all of the work and the purchasing and cleaning, or am I missing something, or are these people just clueless?
2007-11-14
12:11:33
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