Psychology - September 2007

How do I break up with him.Should I be afraid?What should I do about this?I tried to break up again just now!?
I met a man online in June of this year.We started out fine...but slowly..things have changed.Alot of it is my fault.I have told him four times since June that we are not good for one another.Then he starts saying things like " But we love each other!" "I love you!" "You love me, lets work this out!" Then I start to feel bad and sad...and so..I stay.I noticed that he has a BAAAD temper.He got angry a few weeks ago and punched the wall.
We got into an argument at a resturaunt and he said to me " You are acting like such a ****!" ) :
Last week I decided to just ignore his calls.I thought that he would just give up and leave me alone.I was hoping that maybe he would just meet a really BEAUTIFUL woman and forget about me. I did not answer his calls for three days.He ended up Googleing my street address and got directions.He was at my door ringing the doorbell. He was saying " Sweetie where have you been I have been so worried. I thoughtr something happened to you!" I feel sooo bad.

2007-09-05 13:23:37 · 11 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2

I need some real advice?

I had a horrible ordeal with an ex bf who once told me he wanted to kill himself and after I helped him....left me for the person who caused him so much trouble. A one night stand he got pregnant before we met. Now they are no longer together.....shocker. But the hurt still lingers. He will not talk to me and I did let him have it, so he is angry at me??!! Anyhow, a few people have told me something better is out there for me, but I can't feel it and I am still hurt and confused about what my ex did to me.. I think most of all his suicide threats did a number on me and I get soooooo mad and angry. Its been a year already....what should I do?? Someone please advise. Thank you

2007-09-05 13:00:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 12:54:00 · 10 answers · asked by eoc1000 2

Ok so I've always had this feeling-

And its getting worse, its basically like I just feel physicaly sad, in a way. Like something has just wrapped itself around my heart and will not leave no matter what Kind of like falling into a black hole, and sometimes I don't want to feel like this but then its like I am just too f u cking sad to get up and pull myself together and I just want to be alone all the time and I feel like I need to get out, but at the same time I don't because getting out would be too hard and I don't know, what is this feeling? Does anyone else feel this way? I hate it, but I need it because I feel as though without it I would be nothing, but then again that thought isn't so bad either, lately I keep having these thoughts of "suicide" and I swear I have never been so close in my life. I mean my life is okay now, everythings kinda settled down, i guess i ised to have some issues and things were a little f u cked up but i dont knoww....

2007-09-05 12:44:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello,
I have been in law school for the last month and I hate it. I just don't care for the subject material. I do my case briefing and do alright when called on but I just don't have a passion for it. It bores me to death. I know I just started and everyone says "give it time" but I don't know if interest is going to pop out of thin air for me as time passes. And is it worth sticking around when you know that you don't enjoy it? For lack of any other choice I went to law school. I really feel like this is something I don't want to do and am not happy in. I've been doing the required reading and briefing because of obligation and pressure not because I really like it. I don't want to waste time or money now just for the sake pleasing my parents. I don't know what to do. I feel stuck. I would appreciate some thoughts, wisdom and any advice. Thank you very much.

2007-09-05 12:36:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im very shy in school or atleast I appear to be shy. I sit by myself and draw when i complete my work ect. I am a bit different from my peers in alot of ways and it really sets me apart from them. When i try to talk to people I always run out of things to say becuase I really have nothing in common with anyone else. I have only one friend who isn't in many of my classes and I'm feeling so lonley and depressed :(. please help me. I also have a crush on this guy and I'm pretty sure he likes me back (at the end of last year he did anyways). He is still single but I am afraid I am going to lose him if I don't get myself together and say something to him....anything as long as he notices me... thankyou for your advise!!!

2007-09-05 12:32:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 12:08:25 · 9 answers · asked by Studd69 3

2007-09-05 11:35:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

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this makes me angry, but also, how do you handle it?

2007-09-05 11:08:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

would it be appropriate to use bar chart or histograms to display results from self-report measures ie numerical data from questionaire lists, when there are many comparisons to be made? if not what could be used?

2007-09-05 11:08:08 · 3 answers · asked by Heidi 3

2007-09-05 10:43:55 · 4 answers · asked by Martin M 1

What's so wrong about not being in a sexual relationship?

I think its sad how most men cant be in a relationship without being sexually involved. i"m sorry but i'm just not that type of girl to give myself away like that. I dont understand. I feel like i"m going to be single for ever if that's the case. I'm 20 years old and i am losing hope in men. Ridiculous. I'm just tired of wasting my time on idiots.

2007-09-05 10:14:26 · 7 answers · asked by . 3

arnt all gifts free?

2007-09-05 10:06:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean like physical fighting..?

2007-09-05 10:05:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know how ugly a guy can be but when ever i see an attracitive girl i look her in the eye and she turns away IMMEDIATTLEY every time no exeptions.. Some girls do stare at me when i walk towrds them for like 4 secs and then turn away i turn around and she is not cheking me out..

Do girls ever smile at guys when they dont smile at them..Becuase i hear about girls randomly smiling at guys they think look cute but it never happens to me..Also people in my school say that i am ugly

When i go dffrent places guys even stare at me sometimes and its the same stares girls give me so im wondering what this means.When i walk past ouut of the corner of my eyer i see guys starin at e sometimes is this bad?

Once i tried to apprach a girl and she and her freind just laughed hysterically..I mean girls do stare at me but like the 4 sec glacne when im walking twd them and then they turn away --So wat does it mean when i girl glances for 4 secs and turns away is this bad??

2007-09-05 10:04:30 · 13 answers · asked by Bing 1

I KNOW I'm doing something wrong when many of my "friends" in grad school where trying to tear me down. And..i didn't get invited to one friends wedding when she invited everyone else.
I'm just scared of losing myself I suppose, I really don't mean to come across that way but apparently I do. Now, I want to be a better friend...Does this mean I have to hide who I am? Downplay my successes and dreams...constantly? I don't know how to go about it!
Thanks :)

2007-09-05 10:01:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 09:53:06 · 5 answers · asked by kingdom_advancer 1

I feel like i am somone i do not recognize

2007-09-05 09:50:10 · 5 answers · asked by justnicole_1986 1

2007-09-05 09:47:25 · 5 answers · asked by Adina 2

2007-09-05 09:24:10 · 5 answers · asked by mkatselli 2

what are some things that can help you judge the character of a person? by this i mean, what are their intentions. if they mean you good or harm. thank you!!!

2007-09-05 09:16:27 · 17 answers · asked by pookie 1

Even in the sadest moments i have a smile on my face.

2007-09-05 09:09:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am SO sick of people condemning those who drink &drive.First of all a lot of people do it and they don't think there is anything wrong with it until something bad happens.
Organizations like MADD want zero tolerance and to take away drivers license forever! WHY don't these stupid people get to the root of this problem? They are only looking at the issues after it happens, a first time drunk driver can kill someone just like someone who has had multiple dui's.
Look at bar parking lots, they are full & how many of these people are sitting in the bars drinking a soda, very few I would imagine. I've done it before & I'm not proud of it but once someone passes a limit people don't have enough reasoning abilities to make the right decision

These busy bodies and know-it-alls need to use their brains to come up with another solution. Condemning doesn't work and we all know it, they are judgemental and in my opinion closed minded and it's obvious they've never had problem w/ drinking.

2007-09-05 08:52:36 · 13 answers · asked by ?? 2

2007-09-05 08:46:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 08:44:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 08:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 08:22:04 · 6 answers · asked by ~ 1

What would a typical day be like a year after your loss?

2007-09-05 08:16:13 · 14 answers · asked by live for today 4

im doin a project on this so i could use somehelp

2007-09-05 08:11:19 · 4 answers · asked by jonathan r 1

I hate my current school and get anxiety and nervous when im around people I know. some used to bully me and backstab me when they get the chance. I tried to change to a school cloes to mine but its full. I still want to change should I. I was on a humantarian trip and meet 35 people incredible people who gave me faith to regain trust in people again. but everytime im with people at my current school, I cant trust them at all. what should I do

2007-09-05 08:06:44 · 10 answers · asked by Joho 7