i dont know how ugly a guy can be but when ever i see an attracitive girl i look her in the eye and she turns away IMMEDIATTLEY every time no exeptions.. Some girls do stare at me when i walk towrds them for like 4 secs and then turn away i turn around and she is not cheking me out..
Do girls ever smile at guys when they dont smile at them..Becuase i hear about girls randomly smiling at guys they think look cute but it never happens to me..Also people in my school say that i am ugly
When i go dffrent places guys even stare at me sometimes and its the same stares girls give me so im wondering what this means.When i walk past ouut of the corner of my eyer i see guys starin at e sometimes is this bad?
Once i tried to apprach a girl and she and her freind just laughed hysterically..I mean girls do stare at me but like the 4 sec glacne when im walking twd them and then they turn away --So wat does it mean when i girl glances for 4 secs and turns away is this bad??
2007-09-05 10:04:30 · 13 answers · asked by Bing 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hey nobody is ugly here !!!
firstly imagine the look you probably have on your face, you think you are ugly and that girls are laughing at you so you will adopt a look of sheer horror whan you see a girl and they are picking up on it.
relax dude feel confident in yourself and you will come across that way instead of a frightened rabbit !!
i feel sure you will be picking up girls in no time !!!
good luck and remember YOU ARE NOT UGLY1111
2007-09-05 10:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have posed a HARD question and the hard answer that it needs is difficult because different people like different things. I don't know what you look like so you will have to look in the mirror and decide for yourself. I would, at least for now, take the hint you are getting from it seems like almost everyone. Talk to someone who is a true friend or several friends and see if you are a turn off. Do you have body odor and is that already known around school? Are you pleasant looking enough that you would think that people would like you? I sure don't know and you will have to judge for yourself. Most important is to just be yourself and you will attract someone.
2016-05-17 12:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by elisabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some girls are mean to guys just for the hell of it and others might be shy or nervous when you approach them. Don't give it any thought. I can tell you are young so don't worry about it. Why don't u try making some females friends then if u like them as more you can make a move. Its always helpful if you know the girl a little bit before you make a move.
2007-09-05 10:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by lovebug512 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're beautiful inside and out. I wish you could find that in yourself and stop focusing so much on what YOU think OTHERS think.
The truth of the matter is that you are who you are. To accept and love yourself for those qualities that make you YOU, is the first step in developing good reception from others. When you're confident and like who you are, it shows on the outside. Others notice it. People are attracted to that.
Please spend some time self reflecting. Focus on the good things about you. If you feel like you need to work on feeling good, why don't you volunteer somewhere and help animals or the elderly? You'll see how much you are needed and how it feels to have others need you and depend on you. It's so good for your own self-image. I promise you what when you're ready to be content with yourself, it will show.
Best of luck to you, and don't forget to flash a beautiful smile every day... that's important!
2007-09-05 10:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young sweetie sadly girls only care about looks at this point inthere life and HOPEFULLY they grow out of it! some dont!
But I can't help to ask are you deformed in any way? if so are you ashamed of it? if so it may show and that alone is the uglyest trait anyone can have! How can someone love you when you don't love yourself!
I'm sorry girls laugh at you, you may not meet the typical GQ guy standards but everyone EVERYONE is attrative in one way shape or form! Just don't give up and ignore the rude ones! not worth your time!
Hold your head up high and smile and have that thought that your the best in the back of your head... because you are!!!
do it!
Good luck
2007-09-05 10:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't stare you in the eye cos it's awkward !!!! Not cos they think you're ugly. I find guys cute but I see no reason to smile at them and still won't look then directly in the eye. Also, a word of advice … if you like a girl don't look them in the way that's kinda scary especially if you don't know them cos it's intimate and feels all weird. Plus, if a girl glances and looks away that DOES mean she thinks you're cute ! You sound really insecure ... Don't be. And remember guys stare more than girls when they like someone.
2014-01-11 01:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by TheFriendlyPurpleDragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you have been discribing here is completely natural human behavior. If someone does not know you personally, they aren't going to smile at you. Girls also tend to be uncomfortable with eye contact with people they aren't very close to. It sounds like you need confidence. Thats all you need to get a girl, believe in yourself.
2007-09-05 10:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE NOT UGLY!!! You just haven't found the right girl for you, she will see you as the gorgeous handsome youngman you are. Just be yourself, smile, be kind and friendly towards everyone!!!
The girls that are like that are not for you. Someone is...just be who you are an Smile!
2007-09-05 10:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may want to try finding someone with the same interests as you.
2007-09-05 10:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some girls get embarassed to be caught checking a guy out, it all depends on the girls your observing, perhaps you've missed some
2007-09-05 10:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by belectrified 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋