What's so wrong about not being in a sexual relationship?
I think its sad how most men cant be in a relationship without being sexually involved. i"m sorry but i'm just not that type of girl to give myself away like that. I dont understand. I feel like i"m going to be single for ever if that's the case. I'm 20 years old and i am losing hope in men. Ridiculous. I'm just tired of wasting my time on idiots.
2007-09-05 10:14:26 · 7 answers · asked by . 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Good for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't worry about it the right one
will come along-----You have brighten my day!
Blessings--------------((hugs)))
2007-09-09 07:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by jenny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being in a relationship that does not involve sex. There are plenty of people who feel the same way, what you have to figure out it how to find them. You're also very young to be giving up on the opposite sex. If you want a mature man than you have to look for one and that usually means someone who's older than 25. Men mature later than women do, so if you're hanging out with a man who's 20 also that mean that he has the maturity level of about an 17-18 year old women. This is the main reason that most women go out with men who are older than they are.
So what you need to do is find a man who's older than you are and who believes in getting to know the woman that he's with before starting a sexual relationship.
You also have to make sure that you're not engaging in sex for the right reasons not so that you seemly have the power in the relationship. To many women try to control their male friends with sex. It makes it worse for other women who don't play those games.
2007-09-05 17:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kathryn R 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know where you're coming from...sort of. I'm a Christian and still a virgin and I don't believe in pre-marital sex. I also am not the kind of girl to just go around giving myself away. It looks cheap and desparate. The way I see it sex is like a poker game, you just don't show your cards to everyone. Don't worry, you won't be single forever, believe it or not some guys find a girl that can control her sexual impulses attractive.
2007-09-05 18:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol i just found my lover at 27 your not going to be alone!
My thoughts are this tho it don't count if your a vergin
if you love somoene enought to be with them why not engage in sexual activites it feels great and it's a great way to show your love!
if you truely love that person enjoying sex should be important!
every healthy relationship needed the basic communication, trust, passion/intemacy!
This was from my professer for sexual psycholgy!!!
2007-09-05 17:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Judge not or be judged. Because an individual wants sex you call them an idiot. Maybe others would be more compassionate to your feelings if you were more compassionate to theirs. It doesn't mean you have to have sex. Mutual understanding can go a long way.
2007-09-05 17:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where have you been all my life?
2007-09-05 17:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by Riley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I intend to have lots of sex when I have a boyfriend. ; )
2007-09-05 17:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by RiRi 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋