I need some real advice?
I had a horrible ordeal with an ex bf who once told me he wanted to kill himself and after I helped him....left me for the person who caused him so much trouble. A one night stand he got pregnant before we met. Now they are no longer together.....shocker. But the hurt still lingers. He will not talk to me and I did let him have it, so he is angry at me??!! Anyhow, a few people have told me something better is out there for me, but I can't feel it and I am still hurt and confused about what my ex did to me.. I think most of all his suicide threats did a number on me and I get soooooo mad and angry. Its been a year already....what should I do?? Someone please advise. Thank you
2007-09-05 13:00:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
the problem is that you gave him a piece of your heart , just a little piece , but a piece just the same , You've got to get it back , and he is not going to want you to have it back, it makes him feel good , but you've got to get it back somehow!! be friend him if you can do something nice for him ,, he doesn't have to know you did it But do it , Your heart will know it and you'll get the piece back , try it ....
2007-09-05 13:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and do not look back and go on with your life to a much better future.
2007-09-05 20:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you let him have 'it'? why? to be honest with you my only advice is to be MORE responsible when going into another relationship.. and btw DO break this relationship for good, cuz it really isnt worthit... and dont give 'it' to ppl so easily, cuz 'it' is something special, YOU are special, and dont let ANYONE treat you like ****... and when you have that mindset, NOone will even try to treat you like ****...
GOOD LUCK!
2007-09-05 20:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋