Im very shy in school or atleast I appear to be shy. I sit by myself and draw when i complete my work ect. I am a bit different from my peers in alot of ways and it really sets me apart from them. When i try to talk to people I always run out of things to say becuase I really have nothing in common with anyone else. I have only one friend who isn't in many of my classes and I'm feeling so lonley and depressed :(. please help me. I also have a crush on this guy and I'm pretty sure he likes me back (at the end of last year he did anyways). He is still single but I am afraid I am going to lose him if I don't get myself together and say something to him....anything as long as he notices me... thankyou for your advise!!!
2007-09-05 12:32:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I never get a chance to say anything to him either...
2007-09-05 12:33:15 · update #1
It's OK to be shy but, you have to try to attempt to make some conversation in order to have some more friends. You must love art so maybe you could joing the art club and meet people who share your interests. That way, you would have something in common and that would be something you could talk about. When you are with people you don't know and you are shy, it is hard to start a conversation but, remember this; people like to talk about themselves and their lives. When you want to talk with someone new, you can always ask where they are from; where they live, what interests do they have and that will be the beginning of the conversation. You have low self esteem and think that people won't find you interesting but, you have some artistic talent and you could share that with other people, too. You are lonely because you lack self confidence and that makes you depressed because you know it is holding you back. Get up your courage and approach the boy that you like (especially since he liked you last year); ask him what he has been up to since you last saw him. Tell him some of the things that you have been doing. There are lots of things you can talk about if you stop and think about it. Once you become comfortable talking about some things, you will find others to talk about. If you read, you can talk about subjects that you have knowledge about. You can ask what other people think about those things and give your opinion too. It is a learning experience when you are developing your confidence and finding your way in the world. You can do it and you will be successful. Give it a try!! I'm sure you have a lot to offer to other people; you just have to give it a go.
2007-09-05 12:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by turkeybrooknj 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 00:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could look for people like you or pretend that you are like the other people.It`s OK to be an actor in life we all do it.You will never find a person that will show you there true colors.You can be anything or anyone you wish,just remember all of those moves and learn not to make there mistakes.You don`t want to become the next comedy move star.
2007-09-05 12:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by kenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generate a small list of topics that others' are interested in, do some research, make some notes and then go and participate. Reach beyond your fears. Think of "Fear Factor" and use your will to power to hold yourself out there to others.
The note to the guy can backfire as now there is a 'paper trail' that might be used to embarass you. So, I think a friendly 'hi'...my name is_____ and then let the ball b e in his court. The knows is sooo much better than the unknown; you won't know if he can get into you, unless you give him a chance.
I hope it works out for you.
2007-09-05 12:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bill S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this one ,, Jerry signfield had an episode where George desided to do the oposite of every instinct he had , Do the oposite , With the exception of that guy you're interested in with him do the imposable , BE brave , Thats VERY atractive , don't be afraid to be imbarased , That is a turn on so go imbarase yourself , You'll never regret it , Now GO get imbarased , Big time !!! ,,, and try to imbaras yourself every chance you get this year , this year is the year to keep a diary , write down every time you do something imbarasing, keep track ,,
2007-09-05 12:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heyy. i think in order for peolpe and especially the guy you like to talk to you is if you change yourself a little. i know that kinda sounds like wrong but it works.
try to stop being silent in class. when you finish your work try talking to some new people. if you feel you dont have anything intresting to talk about then try doing new activities. join a sports team or a club of some sort. just get other people to change there mind about you and want to come talk to you.
im sure that you have some hidden characterisitcs in you that even you dont know about. try to let them show to yourself and to others.
hope this helped, good luckk! [:
2007-09-05 12:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by yellaaa :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd try to tell people the things you like and maybe they could find it interesting. And if they dont hang out with the people that do understand you. Also try talking to the guy about things you like and ask him questions like what movie do you like or what music, class, color etc..
2007-09-05 12:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by FG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shud loosen up a beat... break some school rules n al... n in a conversation talkin ur own interest is good..but if thats nt helping u can talk of other things... of other person's interest n then later tell wat interests u also...
n as for dis guy... if u cant tell him or nt get a chance to talk with him..well i think u shud just n say it 2 him now then...
if its 2 tuf... der is 1 thing i do... i say my first sentence without thinking... lyk if i like a girl...ill just go n say i like u... without thinking... n after that iv said it... i just have to go on...no turning back... hmm hmm
2007-09-05 12:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by dead_adi_walking 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off...try and talk to your peers about things that you enjoy doing and im sure you will find someone who likes some of the same things as you do and as far as ur crush SAY SOMETHING ANYTHING!
2007-09-05 12:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by bLeSsEd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a note, and give it to him if you dont get a chance to talk.
Ask for homework help if nothing else,. :D its a ice breaker.
2007-09-05 12:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by Ravin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋