How do I break up with him.Should I be afraid?What should I do about this?I tried to break up again just now!?
I met a man online in June of this year.We started out fine...but slowly..things have changed.Alot of it is my fault.I have told him four times since June that we are not good for one another.Then he starts saying things like " But we love each other!" "I love you!" "You love me, lets work this out!" Then I start to feel bad and sad...and so..I stay.I noticed that he has a BAAAD temper.He got angry a few weeks ago and punched the wall.
We got into an argument at a resturaunt and he said to me " You are acting like such a ****!" ) :
Last week I decided to just ignore his calls.I thought that he would just give up and leave me alone.I was hoping that maybe he would just meet a really BEAUTIFUL woman and forget about me. I did not answer his calls for three days.He ended up Googleing my street address and got directions.He was at my door ringing the doorbell. He was saying " Sweetie where have you been I have been so worried. I thoughtr something happened to you!" I feel sooo bad.
2007-09-05 13:23:37 · 11 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
he googled yur address!
wow
well i would say that bad temper is a serious threat...ive known a lot of people that got into relationships where the guy was all sweet and then few months later they became all controlling...
my advice is to get yourself away from him before he starts taking his bad temper out on you!
wish you luck
oh, and dont post your address online...
2007-09-05 14:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by noneofyurbusiness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but you are acting like a child. If you continue to act submissive and practice avoidance instead of confrontation, he will continue to dominate this relationship. Regardless of his behavior, you have demonstrated that you are a very weak person.
'I was hoping he would just meet a really BEAUTIFUL woman...'
Um...sure. Yeah. You met this fella online, but you are hoping that some unattatched super-model would fall in love with him. Not likely.
If you told him that you love him, he is acting like any normal man would. You need to tell him the truth. You rushed into the relationship. You thought he was a different sort of person than he is. It's over. Let him know this, instead of leading him on.
2007-09-05 20:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG !!!!Run as far as you can, call the cops if you need to...if you can't see what's going on, he knows and will stop at nothing ....NOTHING !!!!...and by the way, your guilt is part of his calculated, sick plan...Honey, you gotta do something legally, and maybe some kind of counselling for self esteem and assertiveness could complement the rest....I REPEAT: STAY AWAY FROM THIS MAN !!!!
2007-09-05 20:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by gyps 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you got a real problem -tell him you'll meet him do not show
tell him you were sorrie something come up tell him you will call him and do not -oh some thing come up -
make him break up with you do not answer his calls ecknor him oh well i was with a friend or friends when ask to go out with him i'm sorrie i have plain's with my mother tonight or family members or ect each time he asks you out -make him mad enough were he breaks it off with you
least try it
2007-09-05 20:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's crazy, you may have to get a restraining order before he hurts you. All of this and you only met him online in June, this is too much, get some help.
2007-09-05 20:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by hot tea 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well thats men for you , they can't help themselves, they will never hear the girl of their dreams saying I DON"T LOVE YOU ANY MORE , it's like ,, What ? I can't hear that ! what did you say ?you got a new tablet . what do you meen you got a new tablet ? It don't matter how many times you repeat it , they'll hear anything but that , you're goin shopin with Fred . what do you meen your going shoping ? we just went shopin...
2007-09-05 20:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl ....... you have gotten a hold of the worst kind of creep .... a manipulating controlling abuser. ........call the cops he is not going to take no for an answer.... he has found a perfect girl for himself one that is timid and afraid and he can abuse and control and she will forgive him ..... cause she dont want to hurt his feelings or make him mad
2007-09-05 20:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by zee zee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, You've met yourself a stalker on the internet. Were you really that lonely?
2007-09-05 20:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honesty I say call the cops. He sounds crazy. HE NEEDS HELP!
2007-09-05 20:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Chris B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him exactly how you feel.
2007-09-05 20:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋