Psychology - August 2007

I've been working with her for about a week. he's very enticing and seductive.

2007-08-29 06:03:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i always can't focused while doing my job expesially reading , while im reading i always thinking about sex of course when im alone , and also when lecturer teach i draw on the book or paper a picture like flower , human face and many thing . my answer is how to make me focused on my reading and my study and not doing and thinking about such as that thing ??
thanks in advance for your help

2007-08-29 05:47:29 · 4 answers · asked by genious man 1

i thought she was a friend, but she keeps putting me down and condesending me....ive told her so far i came to britain when i was 6 from france, ive said im of native american heritage to...you no just telling her about myself.....then i tried to talk to her about my goals and ambitions....the main one being emigration from britain to a hot climate....told her i was 30 now to...
then before she told me my ambitions are to difficult to achieve and that i wont be able to emigrate from britain, or that ill find it very difficult.....when i asked her what she meant, she ignored me...wouldnt answer me....then i asked is she still there, i was confused and getting extremely angry...then she started laughing at me..like lolling ant me ' lol lol lol lol' then she said ' you cant emigrate ha ha ha ha,your stuck in britain'
then she went offline.
im extremely hurt confused angry and upset..its like she did the damage, got me angry, then went offline.
can anyone tell me how to deal with this?

2007-08-29 05:26:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

throughout your life, and never stood up for yourself? so your anger got surpressed....and you have alot of unresolved anger/rage...
how can i learn to not be passive aggressive? how do i defeat it?
and what is a healthy alternative as a replacement?
especially if you struggle with low self esteem

2007-08-29 05:03:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

then when I have been openly happy, relaxed, looked forward to something, was excited about something etc, he does or says something to change how I feel, something snide, rude, critical, inappropriate. It has happened enough that I began to notice (for the last 5 years maybe) I hid how I really felt about potential plans, events, occassions etc., or used misdirection so he would he could be cold, rude etc about things that didn't matter to me. Whenever, we have discussed or mariage problems, he tells me, he just wants me to be happy.
I finally pointed all this out to him, and asked him if it bothered him when I was happy. He said "no". He just said, he wishes things would roll off my back and I'd give him the benefit of the doubt. We went to sleep. I feel to ignore or not take his words seriously, is unrealistic.., unless I choose to not have him as husband. What is happening here?

2007-08-29 04:57:08 · 12 answers · asked by so tired 2

even though you have never met them or done anithing on his/her behalf?

Could that be the so called "love at first sight"?

I toom my car to the garage early in the morning. I had barely washed my face and brushed my hair. No make up!! The mechanic, whom I have never seen in my life, looked at me as if he was star struck. After my car was ready he went to the front desk as if to glance at me and when I had a question for the front desk help, he motion to go to him so he can help me. I did, so he said let me show you something . . . I worried! Is there something wrong with my car? I asked, he said no, just let me show you something. I poped the hood . . . all he wanted me to see was that the new battery installed in my car had a date so I know when it was installed and when to replace it.
He started asking my name, where do I work, where am I from . . . at that point I got unconfortable and left.

2007-08-29 04:26:57 · 8 answers · asked by 5324 2

I also owned a dog and used to clean up after it. I'm a new houseowner and have grass on both sides of my home, people walk their dogs all the time on the grass and not everyone carries a plastic bag with them! I've now put (2) PLEASE CLEAN UP AFTRE YOUR DOG signs with a big THANK YOU at the bottom(these signs are made up special cant find them in your local hardware store) some people look at the sign and cross the street while others pretend they are blind and continue to alllow their dogs poop on the grass. I've caught a few people (they come to my grass from 10 blocks away) and asked them nicely to carry a bag or walk the dog eltswhere most comply but there is still poop on my grass when i go out! Beware cameras were just installed on both sides of my house to catch the ignorant person who allows the dog to poop. Why did this have to cost me $? the signs and the cameras big bucks!!!! Why cant we all just be considerate enough for our neighbors and clean up after our dogs mess?????

2007-08-29 03:17:55 · 14 answers · asked by robin r 6

2007-08-29 02:53:48 · 15 answers · asked by puddytat 2

ok i'm trying tog et rid of a phobia of needles and doctors...i bought a book to help me and the book said to aske veryone i know of positive experiences with the doctorts, like talkuing about the actual experience...did the needles hurt that much? was the doctor really mean/ rude and so on...if you guys would tell me of your experience that would help me greatly! thank you.

2007-08-29 02:36:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I prefer to pose as I feel at that moment.
And then, they tell me "Why do you look so sad?"
And I ask you "Why should I look so happy?"

2007-08-29 02:33:21 · 15 answers · asked by Alice in Wonderbra 7

This is a two part question dealing with this:

I learn slowly. I can struggle through a subject and understand the pattern (in math) and get an A in the class, but true understanding will come weeks or months later! Many times after the class is over, I'll be studying on my own and all of a sudden just have a moment of clarity and understand it perfectly. So well in fact, that I wonder how I didn't see it before.

a) What is the psychology behind this? Is this something that happens normally and maybe it just happens slower for some? Is this how a fast learner just "gets it"?

b) How do you learn? Has this ever happened to you?

2007-08-29 01:37:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Than well thought out ones?

2007-08-29 01:35:15 · 3 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7

i want to give my best in an act in school...but i cant cry...when it is needed...its not effective to me...thinking sad events in my life....what other techniques can i make....?

2007-08-29 01:00:18 · 26 answers · asked by reg 2

2007-08-28 23:38:01 · 8 answers · asked by yhann 1

How did you get out of the situation?

2007-08-28 23:22:07 · 31 answers · asked by tulip 4

2007-08-28 22:31:14 · 13 answers · asked by khurshidsana 1

a lecturer who is passionate about his subject would probably get his thoughts across better than one who isn't- that's pretty much a given. but what about the guy that acts like a drunk, but says things that make perfect sense? wouldn't his body language then be a distraction, rather than a help? if so, wouldn't non face to face communication (like writing) be more effective? how important is body language in trying to communicate effectively?

2007-08-28 22:26:47 · 13 answers · asked by Alex 2

Hey , my name is Lara , I`m 20 years old. I`m studying computer science. I`ve always been one of the best students , but during the last couple of months I`m feeling like I`m being stuck. It`s hard for me to concentrate on studying since my ex (we broke up a year ago) is calling me all the time and sending really ugly and unpleasant text messages. Since we live near each other he also appears in every couple weeks at my front door knocking and ringing the bell . It`s really going on my nerves , I don`t know what to do. Should I report him? Please help.

2007-08-28 22:20:28 · 14 answers · asked by Lara L 1

... brought you bad memories?


Elaborate your answer a bit.

2007-08-28 22:16:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

...is it true that you can't get to know him better, just by dating?

so what changes when in relationship?

According to your experience of course!

2007-08-28 22:13:21 · 7 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5

is the moral value is negative or positive in next generation

2007-08-28 20:21:52 · 3 answers · asked by ravinagle 1

2007-08-28 19:21:56 · 8 answers · asked by sandyshortsonthesand 2

Ive been having dreams about different events and a couple nighs ago i had a dream that maybe my grandpa shouldent take the flight out to japan so i warned him the next morning and he didnt end up leaving, but i found out from him that the plane had technical difficulties and hadto make an emergencie landing... but the wierdest things have been coming true !?? What could this be ive ben having these this for about a year but i was too scared people would think im a lier???! help please!

2007-08-28 19:14:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any effective treatments?
Can BPD be cured?
Does the BPD person understand the illness.
Is the family safe?
Is it a common mental condition?
Thanks

2007-08-28 18:21:54 · 3 answers · asked by flip 6

2007-08-28 18:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't understand why the hell i am depressed. i go to school everyday in the same routine, yet i cant shake off the feeling that theres nothing for me in life. im told to live a little, but when i do, people around me mock me for being such a freak. all i usually do is dance around cause it makes me happy, so y do people tell me to sit down? i get cousoling once a week, yet all the therapists does is her own nails, so i have to sit around all days doin nothing. most of my friends exist, i think. they try to talk to me about the things i think i like, yet i still feel so isolated. im going out to the internet for help for once, which was recommended to me by once of those people who dont like my dancing. please, any suggestions?

2007-08-28 18:05:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 17:47:08 · 7 answers · asked by Cali 2

Today is the day To turn my life around.

Everybodies tryin to get in my head.

How will i know if theres a path worth taking? Should i question every move i make? I wanna listen to my own heart talkin. I want to give it all i got that is my plan.

I see myself And don't reconize my face. Some times I Doubt my dream will never come true.

And i'm the type of guy who means what i say

I don't wanna make the same mistakes

Can Someone help me?

2007-08-28 17:46:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

refined taste and high expectations. Btw my firend is very thrifty.

2007-08-28 17:45:47 · 3 answers · asked by Tiffany 3

2007-08-28 17:22:05 · 5 answers · asked by Lacy C 2