i thought she was a friend, but she keeps putting me down and condesending me....ive told her so far i came to britain when i was 6 from france, ive said im of native american heritage to...you no just telling her about myself.....then i tried to talk to her about my goals and ambitions....the main one being emigration from britain to a hot climate....told her i was 30 now to...
then before she told me my ambitions are to difficult to achieve and that i wont be able to emigrate from britain, or that ill find it very difficult.....when i asked her what she meant, she ignored me...wouldnt answer me....then i asked is she still there, i was confused and getting extremely angry...then she started laughing at me..like lolling ant me ' lol lol lol lol' then she said ' you cant emigrate ha ha ha ha,your stuck in britain'
then she went offline.
im extremely hurt confused angry and upset..its like she did the damage, got me angry, then went offline.
can anyone tell me how to deal with this?
2007-08-29 05:26:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
im confused and angry by this woman....why did she do this? why did she tell me all that?
2007-08-29 05:27:32 · update #1
Buddy, crappy people exist, look at the trolls on this site! MSN IM has a block feature, use it. It's your life, you can do anything you put your mind to and make plans that help you reach your goals.
Maybe she's just some pathetic woman who's unhappy being where she feels she's "stuck," either by location or just life...
2007-08-29 08:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Indigo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry you think this girl was taunting you? I don't think she was, though i'm not exactly sure what you meant from what you said above. Do you mean Emigration or immigration. Are you thinking of coming to or leaving the UK? You said leaving, but then you said Emigration which would mean you are thinking of coming here.
In any event...I would develop a thicker skin if you let something as silly as what she did (ie LOL'd you) offend you or get you mad.
2007-08-31 02:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wear your heart on your sleeve, and people like that, get hurt..in other words, you put your honesty out there for all to see, and not everyone in this world is kind or thoughtful...be happy you found out now, that she insincere, and block her im's from now on...it wasn't you, she just didn't take you serious..you should NEVER share your personal info like that unless you get to know the kind of person they are...and not that they are going to do anything with your info,she is just a rude person who doesn't care...but it well prevent this kind of thing happening...stop telling everyone your woes...because only the select few...are going to really care...and I have seen some very sincere answerers here..good luck
2007-08-29 12:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well people are just mean sometimes and im sorry she did that to you - probably take her of your buddy list and just ignore her - and yes i think you can emigrate if you believe you can.
2007-08-29 12:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by Help Me! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Use the block feature
2007-08-29 14:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by dog guy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not married to her - stop talking to her. You don't need someone who is cruel in your life adding stress when you can shut off the computer.
2007-08-29 12:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lex 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well maby you could just ignore her
2007-08-29 13:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by bungee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you were bugging her and you fancy her.
2007-08-29 12:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by justcallmeblazn 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋