How did you get out of the situation?
2007-08-28 23:22:07 · 31 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Lol.. quite recently actually.
I have learnt (sadly) that you simply cannot trust anyone.. at least with anything important. People are generally very unreliable and self-absorbed.
The way I have 'got out of it' is by simply not expecting anything from anyone. Don't rely on others for your happiness, and if you truly want something done you must do it yourself.
The only person you can totally rely on in this life (aside from family perhaps) is YOU!!!
2007-08-28 23:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ivor Hugh G.Rection 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We all go through moments like this. As for me, I've tried to think of the good things that have happened or contacted a friend. If this doesn't work for you, there are "hot lines" or support groups that can help you. If you can afford it, some group counseling might help. I've never gone through counseling, but seriously considered doing so once or twice.
2007-08-28 23:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person I trust with entirety is my mother, she has never let me down in any way I would trust her with my life.
Everybody else I have ever trusted has abused my trust in some way. Now I never trust entirely until that person has earned my trust.
Oh and I trust my GP.
2007-08-29 08:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by cara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a single moment, it built up over time, the only person i totally trust is myself .. sad u may think, but im happier for it.
we put too much faith in other people, especially as its our own life that ultimately matters. im happy with the situation & not in a position to question if it needs to change.
your question is quite general with no hint of why, so its difficult to present a fair answer.
2007-09-04 12:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by ξήĢŁĭŞĦ ŗǾşξ ©® ღஐღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o yes many many times and a lot of times I never found out who the troublemaker was until they died.
find new magazines to read
read the bible
even Job when he lost everything eventually he gained it back
he felt the same way too
so just change your habits, add another friend do everything different for a while until this phase passes over
wow it hurts but you will make it and the trust will return
in a different way.
2007-08-29 08:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually im kinda in that situation right now.....
my husband made a very accurate observation about me.....i tend to let my anger snowball into where im mad at everyone - but im not so sure that im in the wrong here...i mean my good friend betrayed me and were no longer on speaking terms...and its been that way for a month or two, and my best friend is still friendly with her and it bothers me so then when i said something to her about it she blew up and now im out two friends when i didnt even start the damn fight to begin with!! ugh so sorry i cant help you because im just as lost as you are
2007-08-28 23:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by sherrill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a friend I used to have and considered she was my best pal exploited our friendship (??) to ask me favors all the time and if I didn't do her favors she annoyed me for hours until I gave up. This wasn't very long ago. I got it over by uncovering the situation to people whose opinion counted a lot to her. After that I stopped talking to her.
2007-08-29 00:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by AИИA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, actually it was last month at high school where this group of kids were being REALLY b****Y to me and my family, like threatning to kill us and stealing my stuff, in the end we called the police!! it made me lose trust in people for ages. For me a change of school worked PERFECTLY, but you may not even be at school so just work through it day by day.
2007-08-28 23:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made a big effort to find positive things in my life and stayed right away from negative people and experiences. I also kept things in perspective - one bad incident doesn't mean that everything will be like that. Be positive and attract positive people! Decide to have fun and enjoy life
2007-08-28 23:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by Katkin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i lost trust in everyone and everything...and find it extremely difficult to trust anyone now after nearly 15 years.
i learnt to choose my Friends very very carefully...you may not get Many friends that way but if you only have one true friend in life, that's all the friends you need
2007-09-04 12:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by david1813uk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋