karenMember since: March 22, 2007
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Advice on a friend problem??
i have this friend whose mom died a year ago, and since then her dad has been trying to figure out how to discipline her. she basically spends more time at my house than at her own, we take her everywhere (like shopping, out to dinner, etc) and one time she even spent the night 9 nights in a row on school days. we feed her dinner and take her home from school every day, some days even to school. so finally her dad agreed to take us to the mall and then out to dinner. i was super excited because im still getting used to feeling well and being able to get out of the house because all of my life i have struggled with heart problems and surgeries and mild depression and anxiety disorder. but he said he would only take us if she went to japanese school. She had been skipping it for two months (her dad was transferred here from japan when she was really little) and she only had to go one morning because it was the last day of school. If she did that, we could go. She agreed to the deal and so the next day I got all ready and was waiting for her to pick me up and she calls me and goes oh sorry I decided not to go to Japanese school so we cant go. So our plans for that day and the following day were cancelled because she hadn’t wanted to go. I don’t want to sound bitchy or anything, but I want to let her no how upset that made me. I have done so much for her and wonder why she cant do me one little favor?? I don’t know… I don’t want to overreact. Honestly am I?? Do u think I should let her no how I feel or not?? Should I just let it go?? If I should tell her how I feel, wat do I say so as not to make a big deal about the whole situation??
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4 minutes ago
her dad is nice but clueless. he stays at work tell 11 at night and never takes a day off. its hard not to open our doors when we no she is sitting at home alone all day.
2007-03-24
14:01:05
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