what would you think of someone that constantly makes you feel small everytime you are around them, indirectly telling you that you were not good enough by complimenting others whilst saying nothing pleasing about yourself, such comments may include "so and so doesn't need eyeliner because she has pretty eyes already, so and so is also studying psychology and she is getting top marks etc", although these comments are not directly said to you, It kind of makes you feel small, especially when it is said all the time and especially when the person making these comments hasn't got positive things to say about you. I know what most people are thinking right now "if you feel positive about yourself these comments shouldnt matter" which is true however it would be nice to know what the intentions of the person making these comments were in order to really consider them a friend or enemy.
2007-12-27
04:49:33
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kitty
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Psychology