If you have no disabilities, no real problems, college educated, have talents, do not have kids, are not married, genuinely nice person who treats others as you wish to be treated, work full time, continually expand your education, don't do drugs, not an alcoholic, do not engage in criminal activity, have goals dreams and direction in life; in your opinion do you have control of achieving the things you want to achieve, and be the person you want to be? Is it a matter of luck? Is it a matter of being in the right place at the right time? Is it a matter of having the right connections who can help you be what you want to be? Or is it just a matter of constantly believing in yourself and applying yourself consistenly "trial and error" no matter what obstacles come your way? I certainly understand that we can only control what we do, and not what other people do regardless of the situation. However, do we have choices of where we will ultimately end up and be? I want to do the best I can.
2007-12-29
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