Social Science - 24 December 2007

Can someone help me on how i would emigrate from BRITAIN please ?

in brief : im 30 now, have bpd.....because of my problems ive never been employed.....never gained qualifications......i live in a one bedroom apartment on benifits......my ultimate goal is to emigrate.

but i feel trapped here by my circumstances.- like there are many, many hurdles in my way.

i was born in south east france, and arrived in the uk when i was 7.....i would like to return back to somewhere in europe....but because of my predicament, i wouldnt know how to do this ?
as well as a mental health record, i have a minor criminal record to.

but i deffinatly want to emigrate from the uk, but i feel stuck and unsure of how to go about it.

p.s - i originally wanted to move outside europe, to aust, canada but because of my record- i dont think i can..

2007-12-24 23:43:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

Well last year I got a divorce with my meth addict she male porn watching abusive exhusband. Now I am in a loving relationship with my second husband and I just had a baby girl. Lately though I keep dreaming of the strangest things. Like one dream I found myself living at my old apartment with my exhusband and I was so scared. I grabbed my daughter and all my things and was looking for my second husband who was down the street waiting for me. In all these dreams my second husband saves me. I really don't like dreaming of my ex husband because he really scares me. In some dreams he is raping me or he is trying to get me to use drugs. These dreams really freak me out and sometimes I wake up crying. What do they mean? I know I am over him and I am happy with my life now.

2007-12-24 23:27:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dream Interpretation

there was this little black boy and his friend at a far or amusement park and he and his friend were bowling but they didn't have enough money for another game so the little boy went past the railing to get a ball to play, he went to the end and stud on a large black circle turner with a hole in the center when his foot slipped in the hole and was crushed.


What does my dream mean? Someone pleases tell me

2007-12-24 23:07:16 · 2 answers · asked by short cutie 1 in Dream Interpretation

and to stay away from me ?

i say this because something very weird is happening to me.

i think people are being told to stay away from me, wide berth me.

im a borderline personality disorder sufferer, im 30 years old, i live alone in a one bedroom flat on sickness benifit...ive had a very hard life....sexual abuse..bullying...abuse...assaults.

i have a very low self esteem because of this, always have done...im clingy to...struggle to form relationships with people...feel unworthy. dont no how to talk....reciprocate with people.
due to my traumatic life, ive never made a single friend in life...never had a partner or been in a relationship, ever.

i want to know since ive had the internet, for 2 years, ive met a handful of people on myspace...on yahoo answers...on dating sites...added them to my messenger...msn or yahoo....i talk with them for a couple of weeks...then i dont hear from them again....they erase them selves or delete me...stop talking to me...or appear permenantly

2007-12-24 23:02:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

Well, i happened to see this cute guy at the mall the same day the dream happened.

In my dream, i was in my house and i walk outside and i see this guy [who I have liked for a long time except i made a mistake and turned him down] and he gave me a kiss on the cheek and we just talked. Then we went to the mall and i woke up.

Now, upon waking up i realized that the guy at the mall i saw kinda looked like the guy i liked. The thing is that we have never saw face-to-face [we met online and settled with chatting and camming] and i haven't seen the guy online for a few weeks now.

Well, your thoughts now. =]

2007-12-24 22:47:46 · 2 answers · asked by Ojcc 3 in Dream Interpretation

well i have my maths exam and I am really upset about it, I learn all the ratios and formulaes but When i see the question my mind goes blank and all i see at that time is me having virtual sex in my mind. (i really haven't ever but i dunno why this happens, and I am STILL a virgin.) (Merry Christmas )

2007-12-24 22:46:04 · 4 answers · asked by Rajthegr8 3 in Dream Interpretation

to make you angry.

2007-12-24 22:35:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

ok, it starts off with me in a room made of glass, or just emptiness, and im just quiet and then i decide to make a sound, and theres a huge echo, so i slowly make it louder, but then i decide to scream at the top of my lungs.

can u help??

2007-12-24 22:32:23 · 4 answers · asked by BOB 2 in Dream Interpretation

Why is it that a lot of woman love to shop and really like shoes ? My brother's girl friend pocesses 35 pair of shoes, my girlfriend wants to buy almost every weekend a new pair of shoes and has about 15 pairs, me i have 3 pairs including sumer shoes. I dont see what is so fun about shopping for shoes... any insights ?

2007-12-24 21:40:14 · 4 answers · asked by gjmb1960 7 in Gender Studies

so i was peering in this mansion and then suddenly my friend was sucked inside then i was sucked DOWN into the door.

i keep falling down not knowing where my friends is

when i opened my eyes i saw this priests looking down at me rocking back and forth\

upon closer inspection i noticed they were just wood that r rocking back n forth

so i tried to push them away and it was really hard but i was able to escape them anyway

so i kept running down the stairs- its square in shape but "spiraling down"

in every level, i open doors to run outside the mansion
but all i will use the stairs again

its always like that until someone is chasing me already- a tall woman wearing a black dress (the dress is the type keira knightley will weAr in "the pirates of the carribean")

so there she kept on chasing me down the stairs unti i reached the ground floor and i can see she is really close to me. i told myself "just open the doors and run" i did just that, i almost panicked

2007-12-24 21:35:58 · 8 answers · asked by smiley 3 in Dream Interpretation

Had to happen really didn't it, The happiest day of the year and I wake up depressed. I don't mean to bring any of you's down today I am just hoping someone can relate or offer some advice.

When I opened my eyes this morning I just felt like crying, I remembered its Christmas day and I just didn't care, I have heard of people being depressed around christmas because they are lonly or what ever, I am far from it, I have a wife and 2 kids.

I got up and watched the kids opening there presents and was smiling away but it near killed me to smile, behind that smile all I wanted to do was burst into tears for no apparant reason, I haven't been depressed in quite a while and i'm baffled as to why it has happened today.

2007-12-24 21:22:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

Is this obsession or love. What is the best way to distinguish the two?

2007-12-24 20:14:46 · 7 answers · asked by TT 2 in Psychology

I get jsut (just) , wnat (want) and fodd (food) about 90% of the time I type those words. I am an excellent speller in real life and speak well, but my typing skills show a definite pattern of mismatched vowel/consonant combinations. If it helps I am a visual thinker.

2007-12-24 19:35:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

Hi i am in my early Twenty's,
but i never really lived life to the fullest
for a while now, i been having second thoughts, regretting things i didn't get 2 do, but i feel like someone took years of my life away for no reason, and every time i think about it, it pisses me off, stresses me out, makes me feel like its 2 late.

How can i start living life to the fullest, what should i do, or not do.
Can anyone help me out with this, - suggestions, opinions.

2007-12-24 19:10:05 · 7 answers · asked by Vince J 2 in Psychology

May I give you my best wishes for a warm and beautiful Christmas for you and your loved ones ?

And a hug if you want :)

~Sigy the Holiday Hug Monster

2007-12-24 19:03:34 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ ~Sigy the Arctic Kitty~♥ 7 in Gender Studies

I am in under psycic stage I stongly think that i am in hijra categary.but i am male What can i do?

2007-12-24 18:45:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

why or why not?

2007-12-24 18:43:00 · 22 answers · asked by the Bruja is back 5 in Gender Studies

i have bad past that i have spent money on unnessessary things.

2007-12-24 18:36:19 · 6 answers · asked by Nasir A 1 in Psychology

I have had this recurring part in many many of my dreams, can anyone who like knows about dreams interpret what this means in my waking life? I will be in my car and I will put it in reverse and I can't control the brakes like I will push as hard as I can on the brakes but the car will keep going like the brakes are there but are barely working and I will usually crash into something else as I am reversing, or sometimes it will not hit something and I'll think wow that was lucky I didn't hit something. But I like don't stop ever I just drive away after the uncontrollable reverse (I usually can control it after long enough but it takes a long time for the brakes to kick in). I can't even remember how many times I have had this as part of my dreams but it has been many many times. I don't think I've ever not been able to stop while I was driving forward, just reverse.

2007-12-24 18:26:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dream Interpretation

Trees have been considered symbols of fertility or having a subconscious need to facilitate our libido, or our will to survive(the tree of life--along with crosses; sun rays that were considered to penetrate and fertilize the ground(to grow plants); being 'reborn' in a cave, which is symbolic of the womb... e.g. Jesus, Mohammed, and Budhhists receiving spiritual enlightenment or rebirth in caves.)

Considering trees having prior symbolisms to fertility, and a woman expected to always be pregnant and not working is considered oppression in recent times(oppression = only worth her reproduction and maternal abilities), do you refrain from putting up Christmas trees? Or perhaps, do you consider the past to be just that.... the past?

(Question more for theoretical feminists, as opposed to strict equalists)

2007-12-24 17:58:29 · 9 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Gender Studies

2007-12-24 17:53:38 · 15 answers · asked by benny 1 in Psychology

2007-12-24 17:48:34 · 16 answers · asked by NYC Sewers 5 in Gender Studies

Is there any scientific discipline that studies mental illnesses as causal of social phenomena and how that happens? There are lot of theories on how social factors can reult in development and form of mental illness, but that is not my question.........please dont drag discussion into that.

2007-12-24 16:52:58 · 5 answers · asked by shibu 1 in Psychology

The Chinese sell a lot of merchandise in the United States and, in the process, accumulate a lot of dollars. They then loan many of those dollars back to the United States in exchange for all manner of American i.o.u.'s, including Treasury bonds, federal agency bonds, and private-sector debt.America's indebtedness to China, as a result, is staggeringly high, although the Bush administration - which needs foreign loans to help finance the budget deficit - seems unfazed. But there is reason for pause. The Wall Street Journal reported this week that China's holdings of foreign currency and securities would soon top $1 trillion, a fivefold increase since 2000. Roughly 70 percent of that is believed to be in dollars or dollar-based assets.For several years, China's loans have helped to keep prices and interest rates low in the United States, and to finance big tax cuts. so why dont they pay there debt so the world's largest army can finally modernize

2007-12-24 16:39:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Economics

Example: Someone who makes $30,000/yr (USD) in Ethiopia would be living the same as someone who makes $XYZ (USD) in the U.S.

Do you use average income, GDP per capita, buying power?

This is the problem I'm trying to solve:
Being paid a salary of X amount (in currency of country A) living in country B, that would be the same as being paid Y amount in country A.

with "the same" I guess meaning having the same relative standard of living between you and the rest of the citizens of that country.

(i.e. are you Bill Gates, an average middle-class, etc. You salary is 5x more in each country,maybe?)

Let me know if this doesn't make any sense. It's hard to explain what I'm trying to get at.

Thanks,

-MIke

2007-12-24 16:03:54 · 5 answers · asked by Mike S 2 in Economics

in the dream i was in the mall and i was with family and one of my family members ask to take my 1 year old child upstairs (i could not see any of the family members faces) so they left me downstairs to go upstairs. They went up the escalator and i heard someone scream my name and i came running and one of the family member said nathan (my son) i said what he fell on the escalator. I was like what he has a broken leg, arm or broke the skin or something and one of the ladys said no he is dead and i woke up...What does this all mean

2007-12-24 15:55:10 · 12 answers · asked by mo 1 in Psychology

2007-12-24 15:47:57 · 10 answers · asked by brennanjones123 1 in Anthropology

i would understand a drunk driver or somone breaking the law but just doing drugs y do people care?

2007-12-24 15:25:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

ok. so i'm very shy around certain people and totally not shy around others. i think it has 2 do wit the fact that i'm afraid of ppl thinking i'm self obsessed or not liking me. i'm super self conscious and i'm always afraid of stranger's thoughts. especially boys! does anyone no y this is happening 2 me? how can i get rid of my shyness!? i hate it! it keeps me from doing x-treme things and i luv x-treemness! i also luv 2 just talk really loud, escpecially with my friends, but wen i'm round strangers, i pop back into my shell and say not a single word! HELP ME!!!!!!!! how can i get over my shyness, but still have ppl like me 4 me?

2007-12-24 15:17:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sociology

i dont really know how to phrase this question!

2007-12-24 15:13:22 · 3 answers · asked by NENE 2 in Psychology