Social Science - 21 December 2007

I feel like im wrecking my life a bit. For a long time two things have affected my life... first of all looked really young and never felt like i fit in with people my age so i never formed any friendships or talked to people growing up... I also lived in a environment when i was growing up where my parents yelled and fought on a daily basis. The combination of these has caused me to be a non social type person that continuous to stick to my self instead of be involved in anything. I tend to be very self concious an depressed alot from not allowing my self to have fun. I would like to be different but I tend to never create the change that i want. I want to be more friendly and outgoing but i guess my social skills are not very good and it feels so hard to change my behaviors. any advice that could help me ? Thanks !

2007-12-21 23:58:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

I want so badly to just break down and cry, and let all this crap go. I've been sad for so long, but I've always kept it to myself because I didn't want my family to worry about me.

I also didn't want to cry because if I did, then it was like admitting that what happened was real. I don't want to go into detail, but someone I trusted very much tried to take my life, and I didn't want to believe she would do that to me. I just wanted to understand 'why' after everything was over, but I can't.

Now, I just feel like crying. I so just wish I had some way to let this out... I don't understand why I can't - it's been 3 years, I should have cried a long time ago.

Please, please help me. This is the second time I've asked on here, and I've read site after site about crying. I just want to cry in the normal something-awful-happened way. I don't want to fake it, I don't want to stop myself, I just want to let all these feelings go and be done with them, and her, so that I can feel good again.

2007-12-21 23:55:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

and leave the patriarchal biblical pipedreams with the ways of the cavemen?

2007-12-21 23:49:16 · 10 answers · asked by deubee 3 in Other - Social Science

l alway feel a little strange after shutting off my computer then driving off to work, where l feel l am totally different person who wants nothing to do with that person l am while l'm on line.But then everyday l return home the first thing l do is turn on my computer to check my e-mail.then l become that other person all over again.

2007-12-21 23:48:29 · 10 answers · asked by nevets 1 in Other - Social Science

2007-12-21 23:39:34 · 1 answers · asked by Sunny 1 in Other - Social Science

2007-12-21 23:25:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

2007-12-21 23:22:59 · 8 answers · asked by smurf 1 in Psychology

A former co-walker will not cease harassing me. This individual is someone I've worked around for years. Never any close association what so ever, hi and goodbye. When I became single, and everyone on the job knew about the messy divorce,all hell broke loose. This beast went hog wild with harassment.

2007-12-21 23:10:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

I'm scared of spiders, dark & elevators..

2007-12-21 22:58:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

I had the misfortune to phone my boss last week & report sick for work. He asked me how sick I was?, and I told him that I had Shagged my mother & sister the previous night and asked him if that was a sick enough excuse?

What is the best excuse you've given your boss when phoning on sick?

2007-12-21 22:50:46 · 14 answers · asked by The Special One 3 in Psychology

2007-12-21 22:41:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

And would we be able to find out whether we are by DNA testing?

2007-12-21 22:36:34 · 9 answers · asked by happy wife and mum 5 in Anthropology

2007-12-21 22:27:00 · 7 answers · asked by Love 2 in Psychology

What is the walking direction on path way in india and why ladies always walking against the right direction

2007-12-21 21:49:50 · 8 answers · asked by Chinu 1 in Psychology

I would have said no, but that was before I saw this footage of feminist academic Germaine Greer... http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=QP5FhIEevGA

2007-12-21 21:48:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

2007-12-21 21:31:16 · 5 answers · asked by smily 3 in Psychology

my mom used to have a dream about something.. then it would happen?? for example she dreamt she would slice her hand then days later she broke a glass and got cut badly.. i cant think of anyother examples at the time but what does this mean?

2007-12-21 21:27:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dream Interpretation

Stop making it a big deal. Should have spent those resources and money on more useful aspects. The parents are simply selfish and only think about their daughter for their bloody negligence. Move on mates.

The world is full of sufferings and mishapsand they should realise the truth after living in good life for some years as doctors.

2007-12-21 21:26:23 · 13 answers · asked by Sexyboy 2 in Psychology

if the words can be chosen by you,then will you please type some
examples here?

2007-12-21 20:42:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sociology

I can't help but think about shooting up my school. As time goes on, the thought frequently occurs.

I even find myself thinking of the school exploits and plans, on accident.

Is there any way I can get help? I want to stop feeling like this, I feel it's going to effect my life.

2007-12-21 20:37:16 · 5 answers · asked by Paradox 1 in Psychology

These days I am having a hard time to get a job. I was a little bit nervouse .......ㅜㅜ .how can i prepare to answer the question. if there is someone who knows well. show me the way

2007-12-21 20:27:56 · 2 answers · asked by James 1 in Psychology

I've always got that inner voice telling me I'm not like most people.

2007-12-21 20:20:53 · 5 answers · asked by Abdulla S 1 in Psychology

2007-12-21 20:04:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

I am 19. I am frustrated of living in India. Here nobody maintains the law, everyone is aggressive and corrupt. I got admission to a good college. But from the very first day the very Indian term "ragging" started where the seniors harrass the juniors of the college. I was taken to a field nearby and beaten up. Unlike college everywhere Indian colleges don't have psychologists. So nobody could cure my mental condition. Then there is a strike every now and then and classes are abandoned for the day(sometimes two consecutive days). Unlike colleges everywhere else, you are permitted to honk near the college. We have classes where the sound intensity is around 120 decibel. Our syllabus was not even 50% completed. Then came the exams. But the papers got leaked and so the exam was postponed by 20 days. Then they made papers which were so tough that many failed(I scraped through). But now I am depressed. How can I escape from this mess??????

2007-12-21 19:58:24 · 7 answers · asked by Johnny 1 in Psychology

Um Well I was on one reindeer no sley nope just bareback flying through the sky on a reindeer over grass then I get off and I'm at disney land Only it doesn't look anything like it actully california adventure If that makes a difference????

2007-12-21 19:39:45 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Dream Interpretation

please help. i need to be able to e-mail or write to a psychologist telling them about what problems i have, to get a diagnosis of what problem i may have. because where i live, which ever doctor i go to diagnose me with something i don't have.
please give me some reliable website or something

2007-12-21 19:23:41 · 6 answers · asked by (xerox-head) 5 in Psychology

2007-12-21 19:08:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

I believe for the most part men and women are equal. Genetics make us physically superior to one another in different ways...men are stronger women are more flexible. But just in Yahoo! Answers I see so many proclaimed feminists saying that women are superior and they are more successful in life, more intelligent and have greater potential then men etc... Im not here to argue for or against that Im just saying that a feminist who says that is just as bad a a chauvinistic man who says men are the superior gender. Agree? Disagree? Thoughts...

2007-12-21 19:05:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

i am 13 years old but i don't think so.

2007-12-21 18:54:57 · 15 answers · asked by anushka 2 in Psychology

$1.00 here is ......in Germany

2007-12-21 18:51:52 · 3 answers · asked by ALESANA 7 in Economics