2007-12-21 23:22:59 · 8 answers · asked by smurf 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If it is not possible to change jobs within the company I would look for a different job. If that is not possible, I would attempt to talk one on one to that person and find out what the problem is and how to fix it. If that did not work, I would completely avoid them all together.
2007-12-21 23:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, you have to realize that we all work to support ourself and family which is your main goal. Yes, I have been there before which you do the best at your job and don't worry to much of the other person. Yes, let the other person do all their stupid stuff which it's their problem, just don't take it personally..
What, I do.... I take a Yellow Sticky pad and place the persons name on it which I stick the pad on the bottom of my shoe...So, if they give you drama, you rub that name in the floor...Yes, you are extending your emotions which is natural which leads to feeling and then hate etc....
So, if you have no control, well you have a little control...
Today, Everything is politically correct, no matter how stupid things are....
We Americans are to civilized.... If, there isn't a law, one will be created sooner or latter...
O.K. I hope this Helps...
Big Frank
Downey, California
2007-12-21 23:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by FXM65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you resentful? why dont you go talk to them first and try to work it out, that would have AVOIDED all of this. You never know, they could be a nice person and you are mistaken. If after speaking to them they are miserable or not willing to explain anything or at least have a chat about it then they are no good and you ignore them or leave.
2007-12-21 23:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends why you resent them. Do you just not like them? Do they get on your nerves? Did they get your promotion? Are they a tattle tale? Are they a suck up? Do you just find them as irritating as all hell? If you are truly that resentful of the person and can't put your feelings aside you either have the option of moving on yourself or hoping or helping them to move on - is it worth all the hassle though and are you just being silly??
2007-12-21 23:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mellie Moo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I recently experienced this within the last three years...
When I first started - we hit it off well. Then she turned on me and started to bullly me. At first I was in shock thinking she was having a bad day -but it continued. WHen it got really bad, I spoke in private without mentioning names to my supervisor. She admitted she saw what was happening and then I felt like she was on my side. So I just remained friendly and profesional toward this person, but kept my distance. I prayed about my attitude toward her and decided not to give this person that much power and energry in my thought life and used the phrase "fake it (kindness) until you feel it" as my mantra toward her. In the past two months my resentment is almost gone and her attitude toward me has improved greatly. She even made me a Christmas present. Good luck to you!
2007-12-22 00:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by what's up? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you giving someone so much control over you. You are letting this person make your life miserable for a short time each day. I work with several people that I don't even want to say I know, but the fact is I have to work with them, so I am polite to them, but friendly to everyone else around them. They know I don't care for them and make a wide berth around me. I control the situation, they don't.
2007-12-21 23:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I go see my shrink and time off work.
2007-12-21 23:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to ingore them
2007-12-21 23:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋