well i have my maths exam and I am really upset about it, I learn all the ratios and formulaes but When i see the question my mind goes blank and all i see at that time is me having virtual sex in my mind. (i really haven't ever but i dunno why this happens, and I am STILL a virgin.) (Merry Christmas )
2007-12-24 22:46:04 · 4 answers · asked by Rajthegr8 3 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
Well, it sounds like you're a normal 16 year old :)
You posted this question in dream interpretation, so I will make my answer sleep related... it sounds like you are studying a lot for your test, and like you should know the material, but it sounds like you get tense and freeze when you're actually confronted by the test, and it sounds like your mind is drifting off to images of having sex, because you are tense and trying to relax. (you're only 16, so good for you that you're still a virgin:) Since you know the material, and the issue seems to be that you need to relax, then maybe you should try to learn some relaxation exercises. This is a very common problem you are having, in fact it is so common that I had no problem at all finding a couple of universities posting relaxation exercises, and visualization tips for people about to take a test. Try out these links, if you look around the sites, you might also find other valuable information you can use for taking tests:
http://www.sandiego.edu/usdcc/relaxationexercises.php
http://www.utexas.edu/student/utlc/class/mkg_grd/relaxationexercise.html
http://www1.wnec.edu/artsandsciences/index.cfm?selection=doc.4639
It was easy to find a lot of links for this by simply typing "relaxation exercises" in the yahoo search toolbar...
As you go to sleep at night, spend the time you are drifting off on listening to your breath, doing some relaxation exercises and visualizations. See your self walking in to the test calmly, and with focus, and sitting down relaxed, rested, and ready to take the test. Try to find some time to do relaxation exercises for a few minutes a couple times a day, as you go about your day. You know the material, so visualize your self relaxed, focused, and able to access the information easily. If you start to freeze up during the test, then instead of thinking about sex, try taking a deep breath, and saying something like, "I am at peace, my mind is clear" before you answer the question. If you can find time in the morning, also try to spend some time doing a relaxation exercise before you get up, this can help you not only with tests, but help your day go more smoothly in general. Hope this helps, good luck with your exams! (Merry Christmas)
2007-12-24 23:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Study for about 15 minutes... then put the item aside. After an hour or so, quiz yourself.... then restudy what you didn't pick up, and strengthen your handle on the subject.
Long term (and hour or more) of study has seldom helped me. You should also go over the material for 15 minutes the evening after it's presented... and 15 minutes before the next class or the the exam.
The important thing is.... QUIZ yourself and take an interest.
Don't sweat being a virgin... it's more of an advantage in a future relationship than you think. Not to mention... sex out of marrage is a bad idea...
Warm regards,
Douglas
2007-12-25 07:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by prancinglion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See study tips, in section 13, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris I used to masturbate before an exam, (not in class! I mean the night before) so sex wouldn't be on my mind so much.
2007-12-25 08:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you preparing for sex or exam.
2007-12-25 06:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jayanto M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋