He really is a nice guy. I'm a softy, and wondering if I'm making excuses for him.
He's been married twice.Although a professional with a good job (has a Master's) he is very broke. He has kids 17 and 18, so I understand child support, though she's remarried. Later 2 stepkids.Do stepdads pay child support? I know they are on his insurance.
When we met he shared a sm.house.He had to move out, and is without a place, and not looking.He is staying in his office,or 'crashes' at someone's house.
It wasn't obvious, but now is that often he doesn't have money when we go places. We discussed it, and he mentions his bills, but it doesn't really add up. He showed me some investments thru work, and puts EXTRA toward them for retirement!
Though much more to do in his city,we live an hr apart, he comes here and we stay at my house, he washes clothes, etc. I end up paying a lot but am strained myself.
Am I being to harsh in thinking someone our age should have their life together mor
2007-03-17
13:10:03
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