I had a very close friend who had a baby but turned to drugs. When the baby arrived she asked me if i would raise the baby until she got on her feet. The state took the baby and I went to court and all and ended up getting temp custody of the baby. Back in november they decided to give my husband and I full/perm custody becuz her bio mom wasn't making any progress. Well now that Nakeya is 19 months and can say alot of words, without me telling her to, she calls me momma. (which warms my heart) She also calls my husband Da da which makes him blush. With that said my mom thinks I am wrong for allowing her to call me mom. My mom feels as though becuz the biological mom and I were like sisters I should have Keya call me her aunt, either or no matter what she calls me i will be raising her for life. So what should she call me? What is fair? And who shud I be being fair to? Me or the bio mom? I plan to explain it to her when she's older, but what happens at this point?
2007-03-23
19:45:59
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