I am 21, my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 4 years. In the beginning we got pregnant and lost it, since then he has not wanted to try again. He wants to wait until we are settled, older and financially able. You know, have a house and have money in a savings fund for their college. Now, i know that he is being smart. But i have seriously wanted a baby since i was like 7, and it is just hard to keep my mind off of it. I think about it constantly. I want one now! I know that i should wait until later so things would be better for the baby, and i will, i just need to know how to take my mind off of it for anywhere between 5 and 10 years until we are ready to have one. Please help. I don't want your advice on my age, my relationship status and blah, thank you, but i have a handle on that, i just want to know how to get my mind off of this for right now. how to look at babies and not feel deprived and lonely. just how to be happy with now and know baby will come l8er.
2007-03-22
16:51:06
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jashaunte
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