Other - Pregnancy & Parenting - November 2006

Hi all

I truelly love my Godchild
I'm 21 years old & his mother is only 19.

When she was pregnant she use to drink & party.
When she gave birth I bascially bought everything for the baby including diapers - Now that she is working she's not providig the neccessities.

I know she loves him - But I can give him such a bright future - I have a very very good career (Advertiisng Coordinator) where she works in a factory - & it seems that party times are more important to her. She sometimes let him stay with me for weeks without even phoning to know how he is doing, & it breaks my heart to see that he has no bond with her (i want him to have that, dont get me wrong I do not want to be his mother) I just wanna give him the best in l

How exactly do I ask her to let him be with me (his only 8 months old)
I know she is his mother
But how can a mother do that toher child

Is it wrong of me to thing this way?
please help me
& give me your honest advice

Thanking you

2006-11-22 21:55:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

For convenience and family compatibility there is a practice to fetch alliance from the same caste, religion etc. But most of the love marriages jump these boundaries and result in a cultural, genetical and social mix. Does these scientifically and medically lead to more dynamic and intelligent children ? If so or if not why ?

2006-11-22 20:36:16 · 8 answers · asked by sbkhanthan 1

2006-11-22 15:10:50 · 13 answers · asked by heather 1

He's 7 and I forgot to name him.. guess it just slipped my mind.

2006-11-22 14:51:56 · 8 answers · asked by to the moon 2

We have a 3 bedroom house and no possibility of moving to a 4 bedroom or adding on at the moment. We have a 9 year old girl, a 20 month old girl and another girl on the way. I know the baby will be in the same room with us for a short while in the bassinett but who should share a room? My vote is for the two little ones since the oldest is so much older. I thought I would seek out opinions and advice from other parents that have dealt with the same type of situation.

2006-11-22 14:25:24 · 12 answers · asked by Lori R 1

It's a real problem for me.

2006-11-22 13:24:09 · 18 answers · asked by DmanLT21 5

My face and chest broke out bad and i am 18weeks prego with twins is proactive safe? Thanks

2006-11-22 12:29:51 · 2 answers · asked by elmsity 3

I think it's completely over rated...

2006-11-22 12:14:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

sure how do they say her name, how do you say Rita? I am sure you you say TT ot D ? and what do you think of this name? I do not want to call my baby a name that others can pick her at school...
Thanks

2006-11-22 12:05:36 · 23 answers · asked by Me 6

2006-11-22 10:19:24 · 13 answers · asked by aapointer 1

What is a site besides Trojan.com that I can get free condoms? I don't want to pay for them at all!!!

2006-11-22 09:57:58 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-11-22 09:30:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Husband and I are trying to conceive. I have been reading all these ovulation charts and they are not adding up for me, cause some things are right and others are wrong. So help me if you can. i started my period Oct. 10th. It lasted for 7 days and always does. I then stated Nov. 8 and lasted for 7 days. When do I ovulate. All these charts go by 5 day mensturations and I don't know if that matters or not.

2006-11-22 08:57:17 · 7 answers · asked by shadra22 1

I am a graduate assistant at the university I attend. When I accepted the position, I was asked to commit to at least 3 semesters of work. At the time, this seemed like the perfect situation, since that would guarantee that my tuition would be paid for at least those 3 semesters. Since my due date is July 6 (2007), I won't be able to work past the spring 2007 semester. I am extremely anxious about letting my supervisor know. They just finished training me, and now they'll have to find some one else and spend time training him or her. I feel like I'm letting her down, but I have no choice. Because I can't quit school, I won't be able to continue working since the baby will require all my time.

2006-11-22 07:49:56 · 18 answers · asked by bg817 2

2006-11-22 07:43:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want my little girl to represent where she came from, and I feel like an honorable tribute to my beautiful daughter would be to name her Welfare (bc we're ghetto and live off of welfare) or Cracky (after me at one time being a crack-whore). What do you think? I love these two names...they instill so much respect in my soul.

2006-11-22 06:30:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

can i have a period, a negative preg test and an ectopic
pregnancy.
i just finished my period and i just have this feeling
that it might be an ectopic pregnancy. would this be
possible? or is everything in my mind? my body temperature is quite high, i feel sometimes dizzy; i talked to the doctor on the phone he said as long as my period came there can be no pregnancy; i don't have pains in my lower abdomen; how can one realize one a pregnancy is ectopic other that a positive preg test, and heavy pains.
pls advice

2006-11-22 06:16:41 · 6 answers · asked by ingrid 2

2006-11-22 06:09:40 · 5 answers · asked by gulliver 2

I gave birth my my daughter on 9/11/06. Normal delivery, I tore a little but nothing bad. I expected sex to hurt, so I waited until 6 weeks to start that back up with my fiance, but when we finally did, it hurt really bad. Not where I got stitches, but inside, just as he enters, it hurts, very sharp pain. Once that is over the sharp pain goes away but it's still there, like a dull pain. How long will that last? I went to the doctor and everything is fine so she said... She said it was normal to hurt... but how long? He's gentle and we have tried all different positions and it all hurts, it almost feels like I'm doing the deed fo rthe very first time, except the pain is much worse than that. I use a lot of KY too, so I know that's not the problem either, I thought that after a few times it would get better, but it's not, it just feels amazingly tight in there and it hurts bad when he first enters, any suggestions?

2006-11-22 06:04:33 · 9 answers · asked by LiL' Momma 4

I'm interested in becoming a Doula, do I need previous medical experience, or do I just take a class?

2006-11-22 05:41:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-22 05:30:56 · 30 answers · asked by SK 1

I am temp working for a very good company. I found I was pregnant over two months ago but I'm afraid to tell them because I am worried they won't hire me. They are expected to hire me in less than thirty days but I feel sneeky and dishonest like I am tricking them by not saying something sooner. My boss has already made a comment about someone else who was pregnant and how to avoid hiring her without admitting it was because she was pregnant.

2006-11-22 05:12:55 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6

advantages and disadvantages please

2006-11-22 04:51:23 · 20 answers · asked by jessica_elizabeth_brown 1

Can you point me to a good site where I can learn more about naturally family planning? Thank you.

2006-11-22 04:50:39 · 4 answers · asked by Kayla 4

....to get back into your pre-pregnancy clothes and how did you do it? My first two, I was back down to my "original" size within a year without much effort, watching what I ate and just regular everyday activity. I just had a baby five months ago and at this point I am just not seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. I am a SAHM now, where as I went back to work after the other two. I still watch what I eat and have taken up walking five nights a week (if it isn't to cold out) but the weight just won't go away. I know it will take time but anybody else been in the same boat, have a story they would like to share or give some great advice I am all ears. I just need a little encouragemnet at this point I am getting frustrated with myself.

2006-11-22 03:39:18 · 8 answers · asked by bluekitty8098 4

2006-11-22 03:24:26 · 13 answers · asked by bambina_2k2 1

I was told I was misscarrying. Starting last Wednesday, I've been bleeding. How much longer should I expect?

2006-11-22 02:56:35 · 9 answers · asked by Kristi 2

As in other recent posts on this subject; I am struggling with my wife's decision to deny me having bio kids. I know it’s selfish, but I want blood children. There are thousands of needy children, the world is over-populated, I will love my adopted children and wonder how I lived without them… but part of me craves my own. I look at pics of my gdprents, my gt-gdprents & my whole family tree, what they have done, how they worked hard for our family and I am so proud that I came from them. I love that I hv the same curly hair as my uncles and my dad, I love that my aunt and I are both so pathetically sentimental, I love that I am stubborn like my dad and that my mom and I dance jigs in the kitchen while the rest of the family stares at us. There is something about being related in blood and finding those roots, connections!
Is this a primitive survival instinct? Should I just get over it? I know adopting children will be a beautiful, rewarding, life-changing event, but i can't kick this.

2006-11-22 02:48:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wondering if there was anyone out there that could help me put some names together. I need to somehow mix Regina Ann and Teresa Darlene OR Joyce Annette and Janice Marie. I would prefer Regina and Teresa. I want to name my daughter Morgan and have her middle name be parts of my mother and mother-in-law's names mixed together. Joyce and Janice are mine and my husband's grandparents. If anyone can come up with a cute way to combine those names, I would love to know. Thanks in advance.

2006-11-22 02:44:28 · 7 answers · asked by ErinMichelle 2

im just curious because my boyfriend and i got into a fight about it last night. he thinks there is nothing wrong with it. and i think its like killing your kid. so what does everyone else think?

2006-11-22 02:15:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous