I gave birth my my daughter on 9/11/06. Normal delivery, I tore a little but nothing bad. I expected sex to hurt, so I waited until 6 weeks to start that back up with my fiance, but when we finally did, it hurt really bad. Not where I got stitches, but inside, just as he enters, it hurts, very sharp pain. Once that is over the sharp pain goes away but it's still there, like a dull pain. How long will that last? I went to the doctor and everything is fine so she said... She said it was normal to hurt... but how long? He's gentle and we have tried all different positions and it all hurts, it almost feels like I'm doing the deed fo rthe very first time, except the pain is much worse than that. I use a lot of KY too, so I know that's not the problem either, I thought that after a few times it would get better, but it's not, it just feels amazingly tight in there and it hurts bad when he first enters, any suggestions?
2006-11-22 06:04:33 · 9 answers · asked by LiL' Momma 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You haven't healed enough. Give it more time. Six weeks is generic. You have a specific need to wait.
2006-11-22 06:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by hawkthree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could take a few monts to go back to normal after all the hole is small and a baby large LOl i gave birth to my first son 7 years ago as of oct.26 and ever since then i have had discomfort doiing doggystyle ( eek sorry for being graphic i dont know the med term ) my pelvis tilted form being pregnant so it doesnt feel all that good ...anyways dont despair im sure everything is fine its just time
2006-11-22 06:09:42 · answer #2 · answered by summer dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doctor may have given you too many stitches. You might want to check out a new doctor. You may also try a small vibrator, smaller than your fiance (seriously) to get used to it before being with him. I used to work at an adult store and several people who had children came in with references from their doctors to get a vibrator or dong to use right after pregnancy until they get used to the real thing again.
2006-11-22 06:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I encountered the same problem when i followed my doctor's "after six weeks advice". Just give yourself some time to heal...lubricants will help for sure. Try deep breathing and abdomino- perineal exercises-these will help you feel relaxed at the same time will strengthen your perineal muscles.
2006-11-25 23:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by Faye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest that you keep on trying and it will get better and better just as the first time you ever did the thing. you didn't force it altogether but instead, the guy did it little by little is the same how you should do it.
2006-11-22 06:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a few more weeks
2006-11-22 06:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself some more time to heal.
2006-11-22 06:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did the doctor give you "love" stiches?
in other words, did your doctor put too many stiches in?
I would see another physician for another opinion.
2006-11-22 06:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by timc_fla 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know
2006-11-22 06:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by Allison c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋