I'm 19 and am engaged to be married in 2008. I have a wonderful man who I love to bits and can't imagine my life without him. He's 29 and all his friends are currently having children. This isn't a big issue, until now. I always thought that I had wanted kids, and I know I want them with him, but I don't know if I'm ready anymore. I see children, especially my niece, and I long to have one of my own, but now it's come down to it I don't know if I should. We have our own house, a steady income and I'm doing courses in work (I tried uni and didn't like it) so I know we're settled. I can't talk with my parents as they wouldn't be happy with it at first. I just want another opinion. I don't want to feel that I've led my fiance on wanting a child and then turn around and say I don't want one anymore. Do you think I'm really ready for this commitment??
2006-08-29
08:24:03
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CJ
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