I am having my friend plan my baby shower ( she wants to) I live in Jacksonville, Fl and he in Orlando. I am from Orlando and so I will be having one down there. She went ahead without me knowing and bought my invitations and thank you cards. I haven't seen them yet and I thought it was nice of her to do that. I would kind of liked to see them though but no biggie. Anyways she is gonna be sending out the invitations and when she came to vist and was making the list I realized how bad her handwriting is, I don't want my invitations to look sloppy. What can I say or do to still be polite about it?
2006-08-29 07:24:08 · 8 answers · asked by volcomgrly23 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If it's not too late to get your hands on the invitations that she'd bought, you should ask her for them. Tell her that you want to write them yourself because you would like to write little personal notes to each person invited.
2006-08-29 07:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by xtammy2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should worry about it. This is her gift to you and if you try to tell her how to do it, or insult her handwriting (no matter how politely you say it, it will probably hurt) you could end up with her canceling the shower or worse, losing a friend.
Sit back and enjoy that someone is doing this for you, by the time you have your baby the shower will seem like a million years ago and it won't matter so much to you.
2006-08-29 14:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything, bad hand-writing isn't worth risking your friendship. Everyone one that attends will know that she planned it for you, so don't worry so much. A baby shower's invitations are not required to be perfect such as a wedding shower. I know the thought that comes to mind when seeing her writing but let it go, she is trying to help.
2006-08-29 14:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say something to her, but i would make it like a joke and she probably would get the hint. try not to be to harsh. I'm sure she is aware that she writes messy but she may not know that this bothers you. Keep it light and don't dwell on it I'm sure if she doesn't get the hint the other guest won't mind.
2006-08-29 14:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by PYT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be straight up about it
just b lk sry i dont mean to b rude but
your handwriting isnt the best
is it ok if i write them instead
2006-08-29 14:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by shinodaluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing, you are not supose to know about the party. Itis supose to be a suprise!! That is so nice he wants to throw the party for you, you know what you say, say thank you.
2006-08-29 14:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by Army Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that's it's your baby shower and if she sends the ones that she bought than you will just send nicer ones
2006-08-29 14:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely nothing,
2006-08-29 14:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by greeneyedprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋