My M-I-L lives hours away by plane. She is insisting that she buy an "open" ticket so she can jump on a plane the second I go into labor. Her intention is to care for my almost 3 year old son and, of course, with the new baby.
Here is the problem: Obviously we have to have other childcare in place - it will still take her a hours get here, but she seems offended by that. Secondly, she came 3 weeks after my son was born to "help" and she was absolutely NO help. In fact, she was so aggravating, I screamed into pillows to keep from losing my mind. She would offer to do the laundry, for example, and then stop in the middle of a load because she wasn't sure if she was doing it the way I wanted & just leave the stuff in a pile until I figured it out. All she did to "help" was "insist" on taking the baby for the night even when I said I didn't want her to (I really really didn't want her to).
I know I have to let her be involved, but how do I insist that she come a few days later
2007-07-24
13:18:45
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