I want to spend 1 hour each day talking to her about her school, social, and personal life, but she refuse. I ask why and she said that when her older sister was 13, she never have to spend time with me. Her sister only went to school, came home, do homework, eat, watch tv, talk on phone, and hang out with her friends. So if she have to spend time with me now, it would be unfair for her. Her sister is 18 now and left home. She wants her own life without any obligation to dedicate to the family, just like her sister. She feels her sister was luckier and she wants it too. She said that the reason I require her to spend time with the family at 13 and didn't require her sister to at 13 is that she is the youngest and that I am always preventing the youngest to grow up. I admit that I didn't spend alot of time with my oldest at 13 because I was always working. Now I work less hours and want to spend more time with her, but she refuse. I am sad. What can I do?
2007-11-28
14:47:27
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