,when it comes to the dishes i will say to her you wash and i will dry them then we start talking about any thing ,but she will not do the same for her gran and gran is pissed of at that
2007-11-28 14:00:30 · 8 answers · asked by suzywong 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
opps forgot to put in whats the best way to shut gran up
2007-11-28 14:02:18 · update #1
she will not help her gran with the dishes but she helps me
2007-11-28 14:07:53 · update #2
i did ask her why do you do the dishes with me and not her gran ,she said her gran will not stay and help her by drying the dishes and thats why
2007-11-28 15:10:34 · update #3
i do help steph ,and its not me saying she is sucking up to me its her gran saying that
2007-11-28 15:24:18 · update #4
Tell Gran that Steph does teamwork, not slavery, and she's too old to be ordered about. Asking nicely for help goes a long way with teenagers. Always did. Presumably your mum's conveniently forgotten the grief you were capable of giving.
2007-11-29 00:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by who me? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes to wash the dishes with you because it gives you guys a reason to talk about everything and anything, an excuse to talk. Maybe she doesn't feel that connection with her Gran or just doesn't feel like helping her for whatever reason. Ask your daughter why she doesn't, but don't force her too. Talk to her Gran and tell her that she's a good girl and she does help with chores, she isn't being forced into anymore.
2007-11-28 23:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean that she won't open up to her Gran, or she won't do dishes with Gran?
If you mean she won't open up to Gran while doing dishes, then Gran can suck it up. Oh well.
If you mean she won't help with dishes with Gran, tell your daughter to help out when her Gran asks her to.
2007-11-28 22:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's sucking up to you, she probably just likes spending one-on-one time with you. tell her Gran to find her own way to connect with your daughter.
2007-11-28 22:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by Far Dreamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't sucking up to you. Her gran is just mad because she won't do that. It is weird talking to your grandmother sometimes. Not as weird with her mother though.
2007-11-28 22:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the opposite, I'd help both grannies in a heart beat but would be slower to help out at home! I'm very close to all my family (both mum and dad's sides) and have alot of respect for my elder relations (grandparents and uncles etc.).
2007-11-29 11:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ciara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..... Your her mom for goodness sake! Of coarse she's going to help you more. But she should also help her.
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2007-11-28 22:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by HmmmNope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking barely legible questions. Reword them all and start again.
2007-11-28 22:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋