My 15 year old sister is pregnent and told me but said not to tell anyone...I don't know whether to tell my mom or to let her...she is 4 months pregnent...do you think she would have told mom already if she was going to???I am 18 by the way.
2007-11-28 08:08:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
seriously talk to your sister and tell her that it's imperative that she tell your mother
2007-11-28 08:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by fa®m 2 · 9⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but you are an adult. Your sister and her baby need health care. Unless you feel like your parents will put your sister and her baby in harms way then they really need to know. It is not just the baby's health either it is your sisters too. If there are complications she and/or the baby could die and you would have terrible guilt forever and for what so she wouldn't be upset with you for a couple of months. If you do think your mom would cause your sister harm (this is pretty common) tell an adult you trust so she can get proper treatment. Really good luck to you.
2007-11-28 08:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy to a Sweet Pea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was 15 when i was pregnent i am 16 my sista was 18 also i didnt tell her not 2 tell and she i was 5mnths pregnent at the time and because of me telling anyone i had a premature baby as a result she needs to do something before its 2 late because if she is thinking about keeping it her baby could be sick from not seeing a doctor so help ur sister
2007-11-28 08:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by gossip gurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go ahead on and tell ur mother. first of all her lil hot a** has been knowing and she purposely has not told ur mother bcuz she did not want an abortion. there are some clinics that do them up to 5 r 6 mths although it is very risky. i would definitely tell my mom amd tell her tonight. this is way to serious to hide. i mean ur mother is going to find out, its not like she can hide much longer anyway. tell bcuz u and ur mother are the only people she has in her life that can back her up and help her. and then if ur mom decides to let her keep this baby then talk to ur mom and make sure ur mom tells this boys parents also bcuz she did not make this baby on her own. she is slick and i would really hurt her little sneaky a**. tell ur mom as soon as u get this message. don't b scared its not u.
2007-11-28 10:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by naughtygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit your sister down and explain a few things to her. One, she won't be able to hide the pregnancy much longer, so running from the issue won't help much. Two, she is going to need to get pre-natal care to ensure there are no complications with the pregnancy. Last, but not least, if your sister is only 15, she will most likely be unable to support a child on her own, and is going to need your mother's help. Going to your mother will be a scary thing for your sister to do, so going with her to tell your mother might be a good idea. Best of luck.
2007-11-28 09:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as your sister might hate you, i think you need to tell your mom.
Offer to sit with her when she tells your mom. She's 4 months along that 3 months to far along with out pre-natal care.
And i sence i dont know your sister i can't say what she would or wouldn't do.
If she isn't willing to sit down with you, let her know that you will tell your mom and it's not to hurt her but to make sure she gets the care and support she needs.
2007-11-28 08:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by lovelyinkedlady0613 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell your mom, but try to convince her to do it. If you tell, she will feel betrayed and she really needs someone to talk to right now. Tell her she needs to tell your mom so she can go to the doctor and receive prenatal care and decide if she will keep the baby or give it up for adoption, and figure out what to do about school. Let her know that she can't hide it forever and there is a lot to figure out in the next 5 months. Mom might be mad, but she can also help.
2007-11-28 08:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Liz H 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't think that you should say anything because she might not ever tell you anything esle. Let her tell her herself but as a big sister let her know that the truth shall come to the light and she will start to show soon and she can't erase the past what's done is done. I'm pretty sure your mom will be angry at her because she is still a baby in her eyes and just started High School.
2007-11-28 08:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sunny Days 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honestly, you should let her tell your mom. It is her responsibility and should only be done by her. If you get in the middle, it will complicate things between you 2. Your mother will understand why you didn't say anything once she gets over the news.
2007-11-28 09:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would tell my sister she was one hour to go tell mom and if she didn't I would. Not only does your mother need to know, but you sisters doctor needs to also know. It would not hurt to get the baby checked out if she has not been taking vitamins
2007-11-28 08:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by Sun Shine 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If her instructions were not to let your parents know then it is a good idea not to. Your sister is going to go through a very emotional period being pregnant and the last thing you want to be is at odds with your sister. Just sit back, she will eventually have to explain why she's getting bigger or why a little person is running around the house. Just let her explain it, its her deal.
2007-11-28 08:17:11 · answer #11 · answered by Living In Fast Forward 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋