Adolescent - November 2007

My 15 year old friend left her home because she was having problems with her mom, now, the thing that's concerning me is that the person that she left the house with is a 26 year old, married man, who's wife is in Iraq. Now, I am really worried because Stephanie is changing so much, and I am scared that this guy could be doing something to her and neither her family or me know about it. Her mom is aware that Stephanie left with this guy, but she just seems to not care. What should I do? Call the cops? Tell the counselors at school? I don't know what to do, because I am scared that Stephanie might not talk to me ever again. Please help me!!!

2007-11-24 12:47:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-24 12:35:30 · 5 answers · asked by liljazzyjazz 1

Okay my crush of 6 years had a girlfriend. He went out with his girlfriend named Marissa who died last week! [THANK GOD SHE DESERVED TOO] Well he really liked her. Anyways so now that shes gone I am pretty positive he likes me, because hes flirting. So do you think its to early to ask him out because I don't want to get rejected. We're 16.

2007-11-24 12:01:10 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 13 and want to lose 4 pounds a week, so I'd lose about 20 lbs by New Year. I'm about 140 lbs and 5'0. I'm a vegetarian, so diet recommendations?

2007-11-24 11:28:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

its called MeatSpin. My friend sent it to me on messenger. What is it?

2007-11-24 10:10:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

okei..so im 14 my bf ias 17 and we have been together for 2.5 years..okei..well..obviously..next year he will be 18.and we will not beable to be together..well..sex atleast...um..is there someway we can still like.....do it...while he is 18?..like will he only get in trouble if my parents press charges?..or does it not work that way?

2007-11-24 10:03:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 17 years old. I may not come across as that age, but I'm still a minor. For the past few days a Y! user who goes by the name Pluto on Y! Answers has pretty much harassed me with sex ed. Granted I was a bit of a smart *** when I answered his question about sex ed., but now Pluto can't seem to leave me alone. He has been sending me private messages regarding teenage sex and so forth. If it were in a day to day situation, by now I would have just beat the crap out of him, but unfortunatley I can't do that here. Apparently he has a Sex Ed website that I am assuming is based in Europe; his gramer is very European. I don't want his sex ed, and I have told him this, but he still presists on sending me these emails.

So is there a way I can prevent him from sending me these intruding messages? I don't want to have to block all private messages, but I'm tired of telling Pluto off and he's really just annoying me now.

2007-11-24 09:36:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister is 13.
She's not allowed on the internet.
She can't have a cell phone.
She can't have an iPod.
She can't sit up front in the car.
She can only go to parties that end before 7:30 PM.
Her bed time is 8 PM.
She can only watch PG rated movies.
Can't wear tanks, short skirts, short shorts, heels, or make up.
I don't know why she'd want to, though.

Should I talk to my mom about how she's growing up?
I mean, my sister comes to me at the end of the day saying that her life is horrible.
She's too afraid to tell our mom about it, should I?

2007-11-24 07:25:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I'm 16 and my friend is about one and a half years younger than me. She was telling me the other day how her mom put her on birth control pills and is telling her that she's gona do it any way so she better do it soon. Oh and by the way, her boyfriend is 18. They've been going out for a while, but I think this is so wrong of her mother because my friend doesn't want to.

2007-11-24 06:30:04 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

omg my mom wont get me more Hollister or abercrombie till christmas!!!!!

omg i DONT have enough!!

ok i have

Hollister-
10 shirts
9 jeans
4 skirts
12 pairs of flip flops
15 tank tops
2 sweat shirts
1 sweat pants

Abercrombie-
25 shirts
6 sweat pants
4 sweat shirts
5 skirts
3 purses
and 5 pairs of flip flops

she is being SOOO unreasonable!

I WANT HOLLISTER!!!

how can i convince her to buy me more????

2007-11-24 06:07:30 · 49 answers · asked by Hollister♥Is♥Love 2

like some people are gonna say, this is not about me.

but is that an o.k. age difference?

2007-11-24 05:57:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

The most disturbing thing I had was an 2 week old Sprite can, an empty box of popcorn, and an half eaten pizza slice.. That was just under my bed..lol..

2007-11-24 05:23:35 · 28 answers · asked by Deniece 4

well my family is huge and i am one of the youngest out of all the nieces and nephews. so before i was born all my aunts and uncles were paying for their kids needs. so they started a tradition. all the aunts and uncles draw a name and that is the only niece or nephew they bought a present for.

well now that i am 14 and all my older cousins are off in college, they made the cut off date 14 instead of 12. but now all the 14+ kids get money donated to a charity in their name.

i dont like this. i was mad when i was getting one gift but now NOTHING!!! and i get to watch my bother and sister get presents for years after!!!

is this a fair age and idea!!!!! i hate it and so do the older cousins but none of the aunts and uncles listen to us.

what do you think???

and PLEASE dont tell me that this is not in the spirit of christmas cause we have suffered enough with this one present child thing and now this!! we are pissed.

2007-11-24 05:13:12 · 9 answers · asked by Catholic 14 5

2007-11-24 05:08:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

that the saying "The way you treated your parents will come back on you ten fold through your children" to be true?

I was a terrible teenager, and already my 6 year old is putting me through the ringer. When I think about her teenage years, I honestly break into cold sweats and if I think about it too long, it about sends me into a nervous breakdown.

Do you think it's true, that the way you acted as a child comes back on you through your own children?

2007-11-24 04:58:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Got any ideas of what I can do to keep myself entertained? I'm 15, female.

2007-11-24 04:40:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-24 03:59:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I habe tried everything I can think of, but he is a brat. He has a losey temper, lies, steals, the whole 9 yards. Its been getting worse over the past couple years (hormones?) He's been in councling, they say he's fine. I've tried reward systems, extra chores if he's bad, grounding, corpral punishment, taking away his belongings- I even took his whole bedroom away once!!

If anyone can advise me I would appreciate it

2007-11-23 19:24:01 · 10 answers · asked by dogwhisperer16 3

ok, so my bf and i recentally started going out. i've been paranoid since then that he thinks were going to fast or he's gonna break up or somthing like that. but also i made a comment about when i turn 15 and us still dating, and i'll be fifteen in sept, 10 days after him, and i said somthing bout still dating him then and he's like ugh, that would be a long time. is there anyway i can be less paranoid, i mean i kno he's probly not gonna break up w/ me , but is there some way i can worry less?

2007-11-23 14:39:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Kodak easyshare cx6200..........................Do you know how to get you videos to have sound?

2007-11-23 12:20:35 · 10 answers · asked by Lane_Marie 1

i found a job and its 2 miles up the street
my mom lives 2 miles up away from our house
she wont give me a ride
she wont let me walk
she wont let me take the bus
wut do i do???
how do i tell her shes being unreasonable???
shes one of those workaholics so she works on weekends and all night and thats y she wont give me the ride[[btw she doesnt NEED to do any of this, she just feel like she does]]
she'll take breaks out of her job to see the guys shes dating but she wont give me rides!!!
i need money to buy my friends xmas presents, pay for my clothes cuz she cant afford wut i need, pay for txting on my phone so i can keep in touch with friends, and start saving for my car nxt year cuz she already told me she wasnt gunna pay for ANY of it
wut do i do???

[btw i get good grades, responsible, clean up the house before she gets home every day, and im 15]

2007-11-23 11:08:18 · 11 answers · asked by that1girl 3

should a 13 year old be allowed to get an iphone,
would they really need it?

2007-11-23 11:05:01 · 22 answers · asked by asdfghjkl(: 2

2007-11-23 09:49:28 · 18 answers · asked by jetta98284 1

Yeah so I have been having these dreams that make me feel like i have already started my period and i never have. It really worries me but um please answer so i can realize whats going on.

2007-11-23 09:36:33 · 14 answers · asked by Lucy L 1

2007-11-23 09:28:58 · 18 answers · asked by miss cutie 4 eva 3

Im bored and i dont know what to do. what should i do?

2007-11-23 08:21:52 · 21 answers · asked by Emmy Lou 1

I have two questions:My 12 year old sister tells me she's pregnant and not to say anything.I've kept it a secret for a week now and I think I should tell my mother but it might break our confience is each other what to do?

My 2nd questions:My boyfriend he's 16 and he says he wants to have sex with I'm not a virgin but I don't know if I should give it to him or not.What to do?

2007-11-23 07:50:09 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't talk to my parents about that and never did. Its sooo dumb and annoying, and usually they always know all that stuff anyway so whats the point?

2007-11-23 06:41:10 · 16 answers · asked by ipod 3

hi am Jasper. doing my UG . my family is a very good and decent family living in a village.we are a midle level family living in tradition way.my problem is about my MOM.she is around 50 yrs old and working as a teacher in a govt school. she is average tall and not fat and having no medical problems.I get depressed and feel bad and irritated to see her wearing saree exposing her navel.In house she will not hide her navel and oftenly while going to school and marriage functions she exposes it badly.Mostly i feel to die when peoples eye points her navel this happens when i go with her out. (I think she notices it)another thing is my friends visit my house often because my college is near my house. at that tiime i see some friends staring at her and passing comments(i have heard it).I dont know why she is doing like this. she watches film and sure she knows whats going on film(Navel shows of heroines)..but even she doesnt take any steps tp hide. Can any one help me how can i let to know

2007-11-23 05:50:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm really excited about it but I'm really upset. It means I have to leave all my friends here on London and move to a different country where I don't know anybody. I told my friends and they said they would come over everytime they were off school. I don't know what to expect...we're going to be moving to Manhatten and I'll be going to a school near there...don't know which one!! What should I expect from life in New York...??

2007-11-23 04:17:09 · 13 answers · asked by Mariah♥ 3