ok, so my bf and i recentally started going out. i've been paranoid since then that he thinks were going to fast or he's gonna break up or somthing like that. but also i made a comment about when i turn 15 and us still dating, and i'll be fifteen in sept, 10 days after him, and i said somthing bout still dating him then and he's like ugh, that would be a long time. is there anyway i can be less paranoid, i mean i kno he's probly not gonna break up w/ me , but is there some way i can worry less?
2007-11-23 14:39:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
he's not a jerk. things w/ his first gf just reallly went bad.
2007-11-23 14:44:16 · update #1
i'm 14, i turn 15 next september, 10 days after he turns 15
2007-11-23 14:45:04 · update #2
and its the commitment of my dad being ok w/ him and me dating, my moms ok but my dad wont be till im 15, im not gonna hav sex w/ him and he's not like that
2007-11-23 16:08:19 · update #3
My god, you are 14 years old and look at the stress emitting from your question. Just enjoy the time you are having with this guy. You are young and this is the time to get out there and enjoy being a teenager. Don't stress about him breaking up with you.If he does, it was not meant to be. Don't scare him away with your worrying and don't even mention breaking up or still being together in so many days or months--just enjoy being in NOW. You are young with a whole life left to live. Don't try to grow up too fast. Enjoy now, enjoy being you and enjoy what your boyfriend has to offer you at this time.
2007-11-23 14:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by **amber** 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is why young teenagers shouldn't date. OK, there are two possibilities:
Option A) He's going to break up with you. You're 14, it's GOING to happen, no one lives happily ever after with their boyfriend at 14. If this happens, you'll go out with some friends and get over it. You'll think it's the end of the world and then you'll have a new crush in a few days.
Option B) He doesn't want to break up with you and you're too paranoid. This could easily become option A if you let your paranoia get in the way.
Just relax! Life is too short to stress about such things.
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Oh, wait a minute I just saw this... What "commitment" did you make to him?? If it's that you'll have sex with him after you've been dating a while and you turn 15, then of course he's going to say it's a long time, he's a 14 year old boy. He's a walking hormone with eyeballs. It's NOT a long time, don't you dare get pressured into something like that! Wait until you're ready, and when the time and the guy are right.
2007-11-23 22:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by . 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yea, sure is, all you have to do is remember that you are only 14, and there is about a 1 in 1000000 chance that you guys will last, and don't let it bother you when the inevitable happens. You have so much time that it isn't even funny. When you are 28 going through the same thing, then you gotta worry.
2007-11-23 22:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it, you're still young. There are far more important things to worry about than whether or not he's going to break up with u. Think of your life as a trip. There will be wonderful attractions that u will want to visit again and there will be places that will be like, ok not going there again. If his heart is true, he will join u on this trip. If not....well, not trying to sound selfish but u r more important.
2007-11-23 22:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Eskimo Baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you keep on being paranoid about this, he IS going to break up with you. Guys don't want to have to keep on declaring their love for you, nor do they want a girlfriend who is constantly freaking out about every little thing he says. Just trust me, guys hate drama.. so enjoy the time you have with him and don't make a big deal about little things because life is too short for that :)
2007-11-23 22:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, you've got it wrong. He probably WILL break up with you.. You dont honestly think youre gonna marry someone youve dated since you were 14 do you? Thats VERY rare!
2007-11-23 22:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by rhgdcnf 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Youre only 15, Dont worry about it.
Theres plenty of time to have your heart
broken many more times
2007-11-23 22:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by 4 strings 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just take a deep breath and forget about him breaking up with you and just enjoy the time you have together.
2007-11-23 22:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the company and be at peace with yourself. Don't look for commitments at this age.
2007-11-23 22:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sanjay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is crazy.... don't be paranoid apparently he doesn't like commitment.. I mean its only a little less than two weeks.....
2007-11-23 22:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by klcoen4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋