(if you read my last question, you will know why..http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Akby.oKp.FzMHZcmGhfpUjXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071127210704AAqsG6k)
how can i pretend and trick myself like i never saw what i did..my crush has a gf(number one on his myspace..she doesn't go to our school)
i feeel soooooo hurt
and betrayed
i thought we really had soemthign
an can someone please explain how me&this guy can stare at eachother 4rth period half of the class and feel soooo warm inside and giggly.. (but we dont talk to each other)
...is it possible for me to feel it and for him to not? :[
WHy..
this isnt fair.
i havent felt this crushed or sad before...ever=[.
2007-11-27 16:52:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Sorry it's just tough like that. I think you should ask him if he does like you. No for him but for you because you need an honest answer. You can't just assume that he likes you because of the way he looks at you.
You need to keep yourself busy, but know that you're allowed to feel upset about it. Just enjoy hanging out with your friends and don't worry about him. Being on 15, there will be plenty more fish in the sea.
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2007-11-27 16:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by ★☆✿❀ 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
that's why they call it a crush honey bunny.. it isn't supposed to feel good
if this is the absolute height of the sorrow you have ever felt in your life, than you must be quite young. and that is reason enough to be happy.
The worst pain you could ever possibly feel is the loss of immediate family. Lost love is not far behind, but still...
Trick yourself? Don't try to do that. Distracting yourself is a much better method of recovery.
I used the gym as my distraction when I had my heart broken. I just kept going every day, making friends, hittin the weights, and in the end I wound up making all sorts of friends, and had muscles to show off to all the girlies.
It's hard to look far down the road when you are so focused on the present, but that is what ya gotta do kiddo... head up, keep hawking around your classrooms for the next guy and bask enjoy it for what it is. an innocent crush
2007-11-27 16:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know the exact thing to do. When ever I felt like there was another girl in competition for my boyfriend I wouldn't go home and cry. What for your guy won't know and why suffer while the girl is off after him. I would take action into my own hands what I would do is hit the salon. Get a make over blonde high lights get my nails done and work out with loud music to get in shape. Go to the mall buy some sexy outfits that show more clevage and take a sexier picture than her for your profile that will have the guys on his myspace wondering who you are! I bet he would replace her in no time :) PUT YOUR GAME FACE ON GIRL THIS MEANS WAR!!!!
2007-11-27 17:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't trick yourself or pretend you don't have a crush on someone... but there are things which might help you...
Time heals us... and time also gives us new experiences... so please take your time to get through this. It's ok to have a crush on someone, even if he has a girlfriend. You will find guys will come and go in your life, and so will crushes.. and before you know it, you will have a boyfriend who likes you very much.
Meanwhile, do things with friends.. keep yourself busy... read a book, take a class (dancing, karate), get involved with LIFE!
And if he stares at you, maybe he has a crush on you too? I don't know...
It's difficult to be young and have these feelings, sometimes... but if you look at them, they are good feelings... even if it can all be very frustrating. I wish you well, and please be patient with YOUrself!
You deserve good things, that's for sure.
2007-11-27 19:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well teen years are an emotional time for sure. You have to just take a deep breath and relax. Take the time out and talk to him. Talking doesn't mean to suck face or anything else. Just go up to him and say, "hey whats goin on.." See what the response is. Get to talkin maybe somethin will work out. No sense making a world up in your mind that doesn't exist.
2007-11-28 08:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Living In Fast Forward 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww im sory<3
=/ well i wouldnt trick myself into nOt being sad if i were you
you can either confront him and them move on
or just move on
dont wait around for him--dont waste your time
he sounds like a player and a jerk im sory.
i know how you feel kind of...but just know how happy you are WITHout a guy
focus on your wonderful friends!! on being a KID!! dont grow up to fast lol
waterballoons,ice cream, sleepovers, truth or dare, spin the bottle, board games, card games, and moree WOO<3
if you have older sibs hang out with them because you never know when theyre going to begin a whole new life..no matter how close you are things will change
so cherish these wonderful<-- ahhaha adolescent years we have!!
ahha im only 13 but i hope this helps<3
oh and SHOPPING!<3 ^^~
2007-11-27 16:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have seen any of my other answers then you will have seen this answer before - "and this too shall pass". Time is the only healer here and this will have been a learning experience, for you, when you look back on it and you will look back on it. God Bless.
2007-11-27 21:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey! i've got a good idea!! why not, forget about boyfriends and girlfriends, and just concentrate on the subjects you're studying at school? That way, you won't have time to feel crushed, hurt, confused, and later on perhaps, things will bounce off you and others, a little differently. it will save alot of unnessesary hurt, and time wasting....Oh!!, and also those lines that eventually have a way of invading our brow and eyes.
just keep smiling and learning.
2007-11-27 17:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't need to trick yourself, you don't even really needed it. It really hurts but your life doesn't end there, if you think its the end, its not. Trust me, its not. Meanwhile, you need to focus on something else like studying, going to gym, doing sports and other things like that.
2007-11-27 21:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by Jay14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your old question seems to have been deleted..
Do you know for a fact that he feels the same 'warmth' that you describe?
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..Here, add me to msn: Felidire@Gmail.com
If you have msn, that is.
2007-11-27 17:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋