Adolescent - November 2007

My daughter wants to be a porn star and she is only 16 years old. I found her yesterday on the webcam posing for some guys. She says she has a nice body and wants to show it off. I told her she couldn't do that and gave her a lecture on it. She yelled at me then ran away for 3 days. She came back just 3 days ago. Me and my husband has always been good parents giving a good example. She said she wants to model for playboy someday and she hopes to be like Paris Hilton and have her own sex tape. She isn't even full 16 yet! She turns 16 in 2 months. What can we do? She hit her father the last time we yelled at her.

2007-11-06 15:05:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so i've gotten dared by my friends. What's the dare you ask?
It's wearing girl clothes to school.
I would be in panty hose, panties, skirt, tight shirt, and a bra. I can't tottaly remember how this dare came up though. What do you think?
Oh and by the way, I usualy don't take down dares if it doesn't hurt anybody.

2007-11-06 13:02:23 · 14 answers · asked by Eric H 1

I'm 14 years old and I live in a town with a major drinking problem. Every year one or two students are killed in an alcohol related accident; during the summer a teen was in a boating accident while knee-boarding with his friends, and just last night another teen was in a driving accident. All of the accidents involve one or more students drinking underage and driving under the influence.

I was just wondering what happens in other towns...do your towns have this kind of problem? I've grown up with this, so I really don't know what it's like elsewhere. Also, what are your opinions on this?

Please don't bash me, I'm just curious about how other towns are. I don't drink now nor do I have any intentions of doing so until I'm over 21.

Thanks for your answers :)

2007-11-06 12:36:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

need 2 start saving 4 a car

2007-11-06 12:25:13 · 59 answers · asked by phillips_martin 1

like a few days ago i told her i got my eyebrows done and she got all mad at me. ( trusy me it needed it, lol) i like to write storys and poems on love and stuff. she gets mad and says im too young to be thinking about that. (i'll be 15 in 2 days btw) i like to read things that are like young adult and like romance books..she gets mad and yells at me. i seriously dont know what her problem is?

2007-11-06 11:17:24 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no children, but I know of someone that allows this. If you do, Why?

2007-11-06 10:13:29 · 33 answers · asked by shellnpepe 5

2007-11-06 08:42:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I did some sexual things with my boyfriend on an overnight school trip and got expelled for it.

my parents are angry with me and is planning to send me to live with my aunt in another state. I dont want to go because I will run away from my aunt.

isnt me going to an alternative school enough punishment as it is??? I need help convincing them not to send me with my aunt.

2007-11-06 08:22:06 · 29 answers · asked by SentFromHeaven 1

how old is old enuff

2007-11-06 08:10:11 · 90 answers · asked by teddybearbabe172 1

2007-11-06 05:30:56 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf and i have lived together going on 10 months now...he has a really bad habit of just letting stuff lay around
if i didn't put his drinking glasses in the sink and wash them they would just sit there til we were out of glasses
i have worked the last 4 nights in a row and there is 5 drinking glasses on my coffee table along w/ 3 plates and 3 forks his boxxers socks and work clothes from the last 4 days are in the bathroom after his shower
besides talking to him how do i break him of this ( tried talking he gives me that either blank look or yea i will do it and doesn't) its driving me crazy i gotta spend my whole day off cleanin up his mess ( i work 4 or 5 in a row one off to do it all over again)
some times he cleans but it seems like he wants a metal of honor for doing it

2007-11-06 02:29:33 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin has missed two years of school. He just starts a semester by attending for a few days, and then he stops without telling his parents. Now he's a total bum, and he just watches TV all day. It bugs me so much seeing him wasting his time away.

2007-11-05 15:52:09 · 20 answers · asked by streetwalker 2

My 11 year old daughter refuses to wear her lipstick. I keep telling her its not very feminine to be going out in public without it. Her main excuse is that she hates the little smudges it leaves behind on cigarettes, which she should be using a holder for anyway but thats another battle. Anyway how shall I punish her for her lipstick refusal

2007-11-05 15:25:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My stupid typing teacher expects us to grade our own papers....well we do but like when she checks over them she like yells across the room oh you didn't do this right, come back you missed a mistake, you graded this wrong....blah blah blah. If she thinks we do such a bad job at grading papers why the hell can't she do her own job, what she signed up for, and grade the damn papers herself.

2007-11-05 15:14:26 · 13 answers · asked by Emily 6

I'm 15 and love the OLDIES!!! Lately I've been listening to 80's music.

2007-11-05 14:44:03 · 18 answers · asked by LOLs @ Everything 3

My sister that is 14 is in highschool and I think her school is bad. She was talking to some black girl named Jen and it was like:
My sister: Can you please move? I need to go to french.
Jen:Make me.
My sister: Please move I am going to be late.
Jen: No, white girl.
My sister: She pushes past and shes like wtf?
Then after school Jen trys to cut her hair but missed and cut part of her bag that I bought for my sister.
I am not saying that all black people are bad but I am just saying that isn't it childish?What she did isn't it really stupid? Whats with the whole white trash black trash thing? I just always prefer from then to now that we're all people.

2007-11-05 12:59:05 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend wanted to ask what it means to be spotting 2 weeks before her periods even supposed to come, accompanied with cramps as well??? any answers for her

2007-11-05 12:10:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey All :(
This is Jessica Zazy's friend ( she told me to tell y'all that she's in the hospital she had to have a surgery on her leg, but she will be out tomorrow).
( This is pretty much a rant but i need to get my emotions out). My boyfriend of a year & three month's ( I'm 16), broke up with me today. He said he * needed he's space & that he didn't love me anymore*. Well as you can imagine I'm completely heart-broken. He was my first boyfriend, & my first real love. My heart feels like somebody took a hammer & hit my heart over & over. I feel lost, I feel so lonely. I can't even imagine going to school tomorrow & seeing him in almost all of my classes.
Okay my sad rants over. Has this happened to anybody else? How did you start healing?

2007-11-05 11:18:49 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I feel bad for my mom sometimes, because she is always busy with housework, her jobs, and our pets, etc. She gets stressed out and angry kind of easily, and i think that it is mostly because no one except me really helps her out, unless asked, because it is , me, my mom and dad, and my 2 younger sisters......
my mom and I usually take care of the housework, pets etc, while my sisters watch t.v, play games, x-box, computer, etc. They are ages 8 & 10. No matter what we try, they just don't do anything, and if they do, it has to get re-done by my mom or I, because they do such a lousy job at it, and my dad is in the Army so he is gone REALLY often, so he is barely ever able to help out.
So, my question is, do you guys (and girls) have any ideas to help her out a lot? The more creative the better....I have a medium amount of money, and it is getting kind of cold out, so it is hard to ride my bike places, so yeah, and I am 13 by the way.

2007-11-05 10:07:25 · 19 answers · asked by TJ 3

My 14 year old daughter was raped by my ex-boyfriend. I'm her mom so I'm suppose to know what to do all the time, but I feel as scared as her because he left before anyone could get a hold of him.??what am i suppose to do? I know that he is capable of A LOT

2007-11-05 08:17:57 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

now do you ever want to slap some sense into some teenagers who had sex get pregnant and then asking for help.what did they think was gonna happen after they had sex. any idiot will know that aftersex something usually happens, if its not STD's then its pregnancy. plze share your opinion, i'm not trying to harrass anyone.

2007-11-05 06:19:56 · 11 answers · asked by Chrise G 3

alright i feel really really really stupid, but i just have a quick question. ok so before i ask, please know that i am not a total idiot and i do know about sex, but i just want to hear other people say it. alright so i was cuddling with my boyfriend. he had his pants and underwear on, and i had my underwear and a dress on, i can't get pregnant right? PLEASE don't call me stupid! i know i am, and i know about penatration, but i just want to hear i can't. so i am sorry but please be nice. i have been worrying even though i know i can't.

2007-11-04 23:38:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not sure if you have 'head girl' and 'head boy' in America or where ever you are from, but basically the staff and students choose a boy and a girl to represent the school. They have to be general all rounded students.

I started a new school in January this year and I knew the already elected head girl from a previous school. I thought she was a nice girl.

Recently we had a rugby game between our year group and the one below us. I heard our head girl say 'I wish all these black people would get the f*** out of the way, there's too many n*ggers at this school, white people are the majority, that's the way it should be'.

I live in New Zealand, a generally harmonious country!

I know there are extremists everywhere. I'm sports prefect so I have to spend a bit of time with her. The year is coming to an end, and I can't stand this girl! We have to be friendly for prize giving and other events.

Any suggestions?

2007-11-04 21:36:33 · 14 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7

I really dislike my mum and the reason why is because she is turning me into what she is a BIG bag of nerves! She also puts all her life problems on me which further makes me extremely sad. Who else doesnt like their mum?

2007-11-04 20:18:03 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

All my life I have been bullied by other girls,I have lost many friends and I have had many rough life experiences.Many women out there have been through similar things,do you have a story?I would love to hear it.

2007-11-04 15:09:44 · 19 answers · asked by fuddyduddy 4

2007-11-04 15:04:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 5''6 and i want to be 6''3 if my dad is 6''2 and mom 5''4 how tall will i be? And is there like drinks or food i can eat to become tall. And i were a size 11.5

2007-11-04 14:11:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son girlfriend say she might be pregnant and had 2 urine test sayting negative and waiting for results she is having tantrum and being mad at me and says she wont let me be part of baby life i'm his mom by the way, Shes has mental issues and demand 24 hr. attention they both are 17yrs. old.

2007-11-04 12:34:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm probly about 4 months pergnant, i have no insurence, the father of the bady took advantage of me thats way i'm pergnant, and my parents arn't supporting me, just making me feel worse and worse. My mom's boyfriend is kicking me out of the house. I know life is going to be really hard.

How can i get my mom, and familys support back? i feel like they are ashamed of me and want to hide me, mom my mom was going to make me drop out half way through my senior year, but i wont i refuse to. I need some support, maybe someone who has been through this before, or going through it... i work alot trying to get money... i just don't know what ealse to do...

2007-11-04 12:11:16 · 19 answers · asked by audie10 1

2007-11-04 11:11:02 · 3 answers · asked by brandon s 1