Expelled from school?

Question

I did some sexual things with my boyfriend on an overnight school trip and got expelled for it.

my parents are angry with me and is planning to send me to live with my aunt in another state. I dont want to go because I will run away from my aunt.

isnt me going to an alternative school enough punishment as it is??? I need help convincing them not to send me with my aunt.

Answer 1

sound to me like they are sick of your crap. Maybe if you would have behaved in the first place this wouldn't be happening.

Answer 2

So you did something incredibly STUPID and got busted for it, and you are coming here looking for sympathy? Sorry, pal, you are barking up the wrong tree here. As for running away from your aunt, when was the last time you tried to get a job and support yourself, with no education to speak of, and no experience of any kind? That's what you will have to do when your on your own- unless of course, you plan to sell your body for sex and become a prostitute. Living on the run is NO PICNIC, pal- it's a hard and dangerous way to live, and you will eventually get caught by the cops- if not for prostitution or a related crime, they will bust you for truancy from school.

Look, I know you are upset and ashamed because you got expelled, but you need to grow up and get real, young lady. Running away solves NOTHING, and neither does acting up the way you have been with your parents. Yes, they are mad at you for your behavior, as well they should be. Anyone who is foolish enough to believe that she can run away and survive on the street is HARDLY mature enough to be having sex with anyone. Plus, by having sex at such a young age, you are risking not only an unplanned pregnancy ( have you been tested yet to see if you are pregnant?) but getting an STD, and some of those can KILL YOU. Over and above this, however, is the simple fact that you have probably cost your parents a lot of money- money that they would have prefered to spend on your tuition and educational expenses, and not on trying to find another school which will take you with such a record. You owe your parents an apology, pal, and a promise that you will NEVER behave this way again- and FORGET ABOUT RUNNING AWAY from your aunt's house. DO YOU REALLY WANT TO SPEND THE NEXT YEARS OF YOUR LIFE IN JAIL OR IN DETENTION??!!! That's what will happen to you if you run, and you need to do some soul searching and ask yourself if it's really worth it. Chances are, your answer is going to be NO. Take your lumps, apologize, and stay away from your boyfriend !!! Enough said.

Answer 3

She's probably doing you a bigger favor than you know.

That is going to be on your school records forever now. But people won't know it unless they look at those records (and legally per federal rules they can't look unless they have a legitimate reason to). So your teachers, peers, etc., will just think you moved in from another area. What you do with that fresh slate is up to you.

Meanwhile, if you just stay at the alternative school, people will know who you are and what you did, and word gets around with teachers (even though they aren't supposed to discuss such things legally, but people do gossip). So you'll not only be going to the alternative school, but you're going to have that label and image associated with you.

You seriously need to grow up and realize that your parents AND YOUR AUNT really do care about you and want the best for you.

Doing sexual things with your boyfriend on an overnight trip is a sign of your irresponsibility and inability to make good choices. Running away sounds like yet another dumb choice, since it won't solve anything (and only make your life more miserable in the long run).

Get over it. You did a stupid thing and now you have to pay the price. For once in your life, listen to your parents and your aunt and get yourself straightened out. No guy is worth ruining your life like this.

You're worth more than that, aren't you?

Answer 4

You could of done the smart thing and not got caught, or waited until you got home. What were you thinking. Run away if you want, tbh and im sorry to say this but your parents will probably be glad to see the back of you, i mean, after all they are sending you away. You sound like you need a serious talking to. I did 'sexual activities' as you call it. Look at me know, 15 and pregnant. I wish i had stricter parents than you, I wouldn't be in this position now. Good look graduating

Answer 5

If you got expelled just for doing some sexual stuff on a school trip, this must not be the first time you've gotten in trouble. Are you in a public or private school? If you're in a public school, you can't get expelled for doing that. You're probably getting expelled because of this incident along with others. If you're in a private school, they can expell you for whatever they want to.

Answer 6

Basically, you had a lack of judgment and made a poor decision.

I think that if you run away from your aunt, that's going to demonstrate that you're STILL lacking judgment and making poor choices.

My advice is to accept the consequences that have befallen you, and to start showing better judgment and making better choices. When you demonstrate that you are making good choices, you'll probably be given some more leeway and lattitude to make your own decisions.

Good luck. I hope you can learn something from this experience. The whole point of consequences imposed by parents is to teach you valuable lessons.

Answer 7

you really shouldnt have done that!! if they send you a way its because they love you and they want you to finish school and not have any babies before you are ready to! just say that you will do better in school, pick up an extracurricular activity, do what you have to do to graduate, dont have any boyfriends because that is what started this, and do everything that you said that you would do!! take this as an learning experience and not as a punishment!! send me you e mail and i will tell you about how hard it is to raise a child!!

Answer 8

I would if I were your mom and dad. You made a HUGE mistake and now you must pay the consequences. This is why 13 and 14 year olds shouldn't be having sex because they can't handle the consequences. You might think twice before spreading your legs again huh?

Answer 9

Oh my God your parents are not fair at all they did so wrong, they should have kicked your butt to a country like South Africa and got your *** whipped and legs and hands chained like a slave then you would not even think of haviing a boyfriend talkless of sexual things.

Answer 10

i had a problem i punched a secirty gaurd at my other school but tell you parents to not send you and what did you you do to your boyfriend and go to your aunts becase it might be better for you i went to my uncles house and i shaped up quick you just need to think before you act

Answer 11

Ok well you are way to young to be doing "sexual things". Your parents are right for sending you away and getting expelled. And grow up, don't run away just the adults are making informed decisions to improve your life.