Women Only:Have you ever been bullied by another girl?If so,would you like to share your story?

Question

All my life I have been bullied by other girls,I have lost many friends and I have had many rough life experiences.Many women out there have been through similar things,do you have a story?I would love to hear it.

My story(Part 1):
It all started in 5th grade,I had a best friend,we sticked like gum,well her grandmother was abusive to me,she hit me a few times,she would say crazy and completely rude things to me,she tried my make my friend stay away from me,at the end of the year,she did.I lost my friend,I got depressed so I changed schools,well...big mistake.So I start in school,I find out that my childhood best friend goes to the school,so I try to fit in with her friends.Problem is,her friends were the like the girls in Mean Girls,exactly the same.I tried fitting in,I became someone I wasn't,I acted different,I cared about my looks more.Another problem was that I liked the "preppy jock" and well he used to call me fat,so yea...I did starve myself,lost tons of weight,he got worried when he found out it was part of his fault.I started cutting that year,it was 6th grade,my ex-best friend was against me and so were her so-called friends.She would torment me alot,so would her best friend.

My Story(Part 2):
So her "best friend"(more like the person who bossed her around and told her what to do)became one of my worst enemies,she always tried to get me into trouble,she used to abuse of me physically and mentally,my mom had to talk to her mom at school,it only made it worse.The girl said they were going to kick me out of the school,the principal already loathed me so it wasn't hard to believe,half of the people believed her,others asked me first,I said the truth.So then we started middle school/high school(it's both in the same school),in 7th grade she told everyone I was going to kill her,one day while I was eating,she sent a friend of hers that was older to tell me that she was going to break my face.After that,she kept on trying to abuse me,she still does.I am the "misfit" at school,I go to an all-girls private school,many rich girls go there,and 96% of them only care about things that money can buy,I don't care about money,I care about life.I still get bullied for that

Answer 1

I think almost every girl has been bullied by another girl. It wasn't long ago and I still don't know why she just had to choose me. I guess she thought I was calling her a ***** when I was really talking about someone else.

Answer 2

I got bullied LOTS as a child.I was very different to the other kids.I was a geeky, mummys kid and a teachers pet.
All throughout primary school i was on my own basically, it didnt do me any good.I was abused both mentally and physically.
This in some sences carried on through secondary school up to about year 9.I was still very geeky and a mummys kid.I didnt really talk to people.
I was bulied until year 9.That was when i had a mental breakdown.I started cutting and attempted suicide.I guess after so much bulling i stared to believe what they were saying was true.I was put into a hospital and after 3 months they let me out and i was determined to not let them do that to me again.I changed how i looked,i lost weight,started to use make-up and changed my attitude.
During my months at the hospital i had been diagnoed with a borderline personality disorder and i now, i guess ,i had a reason for my actions.
I went back to school at the begining of year 10,feeling happy and looking good.People were so shocked and they were actually nice to me.I didnt really bother with them though,i was polite and kind to them, however i headed straight for the people who had'nt been quite so horrible.
I became friends with them and now im really happy.I live my life like a 17 year old should.
My past is behind me and my future is all in my hands.I never want to go back to those days,and only i can stop myself from doing so.
Bullies ruined my childhood,im not going to let them ruin my teenage years.

Obviosly there is still some bulling but its nothing to how it used to be.I know it all sounds very hollywood movieish,but, well its true!

Answer 3

I've been bullied when i was in junior high and high school. I can't say that it was physically bullied but it was more a mentally bullied.

First, There were some seniors who didnt like me just
because i dressed differently, they stopped me in a mall and shouting at me. of course, i couldn't accept that, so i shouted back and them. When we're in school , those seniors also bullied me, but i tried to strong..after a while they stopped bothering me.

Second, when i was in high school, i wasn't the most popular girl but i was in their clique, one day, the new girlfriend of my ex, started to hate me. i also didn't know why because i've never interfered their relationship. she started telling bad stories about me and unfortunately, she got all the attention from the girls of the clique. Eventually, i was out from the clique and got discriminated. Luckily , i had some good friends who understand and stay friends with me.

Those were my bad days, but now as i grow up, i realize that people come and go, my bad experience doesn't matter anymore for me, and maybe because of that, i'd became a stronger person now!

Answer 4

Yes, I've been bullied during my adolescent years. I was a geek and a nerd (hey I still am) and there are these kids in school that wouldn't stop bugging me. They played pranks on me, and even got to the point that one actually hurt me physically. But mine is a success story my dear. Instead of enduring all that crap, I've learned to stand up for myself and push those mean people away. I've realized that I am way too smart to have them intimidate me. It's a david against goliant dream come true for me. Eventually, I've gained the respect of my other peers and it really boosted my confidence. Looking back, I am happy I stood up against them. I've learned that I may be different but that difference is what makes me stand out. I have a very good and happy life. I am very much fulfilled. Call it karma but those losers are still losers up to this day.

Answer 5

I can certainly relate. I'm rather short (vertically challenged ;) so I was pretty much a target of bullies in middle school as well as high school from both the male and female gender. They either wanted to try to impress their friends or try to feel superior (even though they are much more inferior) and are actually dorks themselves :) I would try to respond to others in a neutral tone and if need be, become more assertive (trying not to actually be aggressive). It's not okay for others to mistreat or abuse the next person. It's just not acceptable.

I had to limit myself to one or two friends as well as to not tolerate the abusive treatment from others which would tend to be false rumors, exaggerations, belittling remarks if even trying to do so in a sly, subtle way, 'bullying by exclusion' and such. Females seem to be especially 'competitive' (one-upping :), catty ('slyly malicious' from Random House dictionary ;) aka back-stabbing. A lot of people tend to get along more smoothly with the male population as they tend (not necessarily) to be more laid back. (Best not to be too trusting with anyone though.)

Answer 6

In high school once. For some reason, this one girl thought I had called her a b*tch (which I didnt). So she got mad and threatened to fight me before a teacher and some friends stepped in. Then she would always call me and my friends "white trash" when she saw us. Funny thing is, she was white also and lived in the crappiest trailer park in town. She gave it a rest after a while though when me and my friends did not respond. Maybe she realized she was just making herself look like an as s or maybe she was hoping for some sort of reaction from us and was disappointed when we didnt react.

Answer 7

I've been bullied by guys which is much worse. I get scared very easily and I cry at the silliest things so I've alway been an easy target for people. I used to live at my cousins house when we first moved to America, so they always found a reason to bug me. One of them was a football player and he would kick me a lot in my shins, and they would put on a mask some mornings and get out their air soft guns and shoot random places in my room with it to scare me. But I guess now I know how to stand up for myself and some pretty good comebacks. Now I usually smack them when ever they do stuff to me.

Answer 8

I was bullied 1 time by a girl. Her name was Jamela (She was black) and she was 13. I was 12 at the time. Jamela had lost her virginity to a guy named Anthony (He was 16). Well, their we're "dating" but, he was really just using her. Well, I met Anthony & I thought he was very cute. Well, I ended up loosing my virginity & she got mad because I "took" him away from her.
One day, I was walking home from getting off of the bus & she ran up to me & started slapping my face. Although, I put my hands up where she couldn't. A friends mom was driving by & she ran. A few days later I was walking home with my friend, Jessica (I have known Jessica since I was 2), & Jamela ran up behind me pulled my hair and had my head down facing the ground. Jessica pulled my hair out of her hand & I ran. I had never ever fought anyone in my life & I was scared.
If she ever tried to fight me today, I'd definitly beat her a**.

Answer 9

Yes, but I've never been bothered by it. I learned how to stand up for myself and not take anything from anyone. Now people really don't mess with me. People mess with you because they're unhappy and want some type of satisfaction. This girl used to talk about me because I had really short hair and I didn't wear the fanciest clothes. I felt so out of place. One day I just got tired and started to whoop some a-s-s

Answer 10

Back in middle school I was bullied by other girls! I lost friends and had awful things said about me! girls can be so cruel to each other! what I really did was tried to ignore them! I build a tough skin and never cared about what they say or thought about me! my saying in life is it doesn't matter what they think! its matters what i think! that mentality helped me throughout high school and made a stronger person up to know!