sex and the preteen?

Question

now do you ever want to slap some sense into some teenagers who had sex get pregnant and then asking for help.what did they think was gonna happen after they had sex. any idiot will know that aftersex something usually happens, if its not STD's then its pregnancy. plze share your opinion, i'm not trying to harrass anyone.

at this present era everyone now knows that sex results in to something, pleasure,yes. but someday down the line that condom can burst, and you get pregnant, or you catch something. dont tell me that theres not one teen out there that doesnt know the consequenses of sex. and those that dont use protection the same thing happens.

everyone makes mistakes,yes. you'll be surprised these days how much info our kids know. and parents always act oblivious to these type of situations. look you have interenet for crying out loud. when they see these stuff on the web they want to try it out too.

missy an dthe screwdrivers, nuff love to u .

trust me when you get older and think maturely you'll know that it was a big mistake to start sex at an early age. when you share it with someone you truly LOVE, then you know it was worth it after all. all my love to those teenmoms and dads, but remember you play with fire you gonna get burn.

Answer 1

in fact one can even get pregnant and get std at the same time only takes one time to get both. it isnt the kids fault it is the parents it is so important to educate our kids from the begining andhave themfocus on school and living a productive life. alot of times girl want to get pregant early for
1. its human for woman to want to concieve
2. they want to be loved so they get pregnant.
3. the fathers are not in the picture or family isnt functional.
4. lack of self esteem.
got 5 brothers all older than me and they taught me what do i need a boy for to whisper sweet nothings in my ear? boys have sex for hormones and curiosity not out of love they may think it is but its not. there is nothing possitve from having sex when your just a kid. your grades will not get better in fact they will decline. having a baby at 14 15 16 etc ok so cool then at 18 what if one falls in love again and gets pregnant then two yrs later? then one has 3 kids by different dads and it says alot for a person who is setting no example. i doubt a succesful man like a doctor or potential independant man is gonna wanna be with someone like this and care for all these kids only thing is welfare. its important to tell this girl you know that her life will be over, everyone is so focused on anti abortion rather they should focus on the problem and solution prior to gettting pregnant that is educating the youth on girls having self esteem. My one brother really like this young lady he knew in high school they were in 11 grade but she had a baby didnt tell him for a while and he chose not to be with her cause he wanted to go to college live his life.
i can give a lot of reasons to why having sex and having babys isnt cool at a young age. but im sure i got my point across, and im not a square i just learned a lot from my brothers and im happy that i wasnt like everyone that i went toschool with. answer is just waite one will not dye if they dnt have kids. and yes stds dont discriminate my best friend passed away from aids at 18 yo when she found out she was pregnant they did blood test and she was possitive. she was beautiful very pretty outside and inside she had low self esteem and was dependent on boys to give her this but no man can love you if you dnt love your self. why not be independant and unique?

Answer 2

I got pregnant at 17. Yes I was on the pill and no I did not use a condom. I am now married to my husband with 2 kids. We did know what could happen and it did. I never asked anyone for help as far as needing a place to live or money. We moved out on our own, I was a senior in High School with a baby and a full time job. My husband was out of school working a full time job and a part time job. We have done very well for ourselves. I am 22 now and we have a very nice house and 40 acres. We own our vehicles, everything we have. We provide very well for our children and love each other. I do understand what your saying. But it seems that in this day and age people are having families alot earlier. Trend maybe.. but if they can take care of that baby then who cares. At least I will be able to play with my grandkids and great grandkids because I wont be on my death bed! If they get pregnant and then have an abortion then I can see your point but other than that I cant. Look at it this way, for those who do get pregnant and dont want it and they choose adoption. Then they are giving someone the chance to have a baby that may not otherwise have one. STD'S no, not every teen that is careless will get one. Its just a good chance that they do. They know what can happen when they go into it, its either they dont care about it or they know they can handle it.. You asked my opinion so there it is..

Answer 3

if a teenager is going to have sex, they should know what they are getting into: the stress, the pressure, the risks, and the advantages of waiting. as preteens and teens, we are constantly being bombarded with sex in the media and through peers. its your generation that is putting these things into the media, so maybe if you dont want us to think that sex is what its all about, you should stand up. we can only do so much as teens when it comes to what is aired and what isnt.

i also think that whoever thought it was a good idea to have 'comprehensive sex ed.' should be slapped. its like saying, 'dont do drugs, but if you do, use a clean needle. in my health class, we had a very good speaker come in and talk to us about waiting until marriage, very convincing. but the next chapter was about all of the different types of birth control there are, even some that i had never heard of and that sounded good to me.

if sexually active teens have enough sense, they will be protected and the only thing that will happen is the major emotions from losing your virginity so young and to someone you dont love. they will lessen their chances of pregnancy and std's by a lot.

Answer 4

im a proud 16 year old virgin!

i totally agree with u. i have a freind who is 16, sophmiore and pregnant. this is not the first guy she has been with. he was suppose to leave for the army next summer after he turned 18. but now they arent letting him which is a good thing. they are both so excited and im standing there like wut the hell is wrong with u?!

we have several couples at scl getting ready to bring another irresponsible little versio of themselves into this world. i dont understand how so many teenagers can b so stupid. several ppl in my town that r my age have diseases from having sex with each other. they dont realize how much damage they are realy doing. i have 3 girl friends and half a dozen guy friends who i know havent had sex yet. i dont know anyone in higschool that is matuer enouhg to have a kid. if they were mature enough they wouldnt have gotten pregnant before graduattion.

the girls who are pregnant now hae never had a sex talk from their parents before. and the schools here arent helping very much either. we i have 1 week of learning about sexual organs and diseases then we never talk about it again. we can volunteer to take a realistic baby hme over night. i got stuck with it for 4 days cuz we got snowed in

but anyway i think sex ed should be forced and taken more seriously and parents need to b more involved.

Answer 5

First off something such as STD's or pregnancy always happens after sex. Safe sex actually results in pleasure. I don't know what your experiences are. I do agree that pre teens should nor be participating in sex, but did you ever stop to think that maybe their parents didn't talk to them about it? My school didn't even have sex ed classes. They just had a man come in and talk to us about it once in the 6th grade. We got to watch videos and saw pictures of the reproductive organs, but that was the extent of it. Schools are not always on point with these topics and neither are parents. Parents need to realize that it's out there and it's better to talk to your children sooner than later.

Answer 6

well the whole teen pregnancy bugs me! i think these kids should b educated more, and maybe this would happen less. as far as the questions....its really annoying when they ask "am i pregnant" because....we are not a pregnancy test. but i dont mind the questions about that they need help talking to their parents...

Answer 7

I completely agree with laylajai74!~
Girls have sex for acceptance, peer pressure, love, low self esteem, lack of positive role models, parents that are not in the picture, the dysfunctional family with violence and exposure all kinds of abuse, drugs and so many reasons girls turn to sex for attention. Brains play no part in their decisions, no matter how aware they are many times. All a girl know is how she feels and how she would like to feel (LOVED) even if it's for a little while.
The sad thing is after it's all over 99.9 of them feel worse....they regret their first intercourse experience...and are left feeling used...as their self esteem takes one more low blow.
Pre-Teenager boys and girls experiencing sex is only a consequence of the entire nations lack for character to stand up to sex in all forms of media. Our inadequacy and lack of indignation, is what keeps allowing sex in our homes. We as a nation have gotten to the point we've grown to accept it as a part of life instead of fighting against it with aggressiveness and pugnacity.
It's my opinion we as a nation can all share the credit for our children mistakes. We are the adults last time I checked and they are after all a reflection of the sex driven ways our nation partakes....and by no means are our kids IDIOTS!

Answer 8

your not "trying" to harass anyone huh...that's odd... then you may be the idiot, because obviously you are. It's not wrong for a teenager to ask her parents for help because she wants to keep the baby. Or anything of the sort. I do understand that they should've known to use condoms to prevent std's or an unwanted pregnancy, but does that makes them an idiot.. or someone who made a mistake?

Answer 9

Lets face it teenagers and adults think that "It's not going to happen to me" scenario! How many stupid choices do we all make! It all boils down to MORALS and loving yourself enough to say no when everything in us is screaming yes!

Answer 10

Lets line em up and start the slapping. Yeah they need it. But seriously if they have to ask about sex they are to young to have it.