My daughter problems?

Question

My daughter wants to be a porn star and she is only 16 years old. I found her yesterday on the webcam posing for some guys. She says she has a nice body and wants to show it off. I told her she couldn't do that and gave her a lecture on it. She yelled at me then ran away for 3 days. She came back just 3 days ago. Me and my husband has always been good parents giving a good example. She said she wants to model for playboy someday and she hopes to be like Paris Hilton and have her own sex tape. She isn't even full 16 yet! She turns 16 in 2 months. What can we do? She hit her father the last time we yelled at her.

Answer 1

wow, take her to a councilor NOW. this is not good. but you won't get any real help here.

Answer 2

This really is a tough one, firstly its really nice that she likes her body, as long as it really is a good self image and shes not doing it just for the attention. clearly nude or semi nude modelling is for attention but many people really do enjoy doing it. obviously she is too young at the moment to do it and she is at a VERY hard age to sit and talk with but if you are able to talk to her, and you think you can handle whatever she has to say, ask she feel that she want to do this, explain that she isnt LEGALLY old enough - this way its not just you saying 'your not old enough' which every teenager already hears enough of, but that when she is older then maybe this could be an option, but see if she wants to get in to clothed modelling, if its her body she is happy with this could be a good start and a great way to show encouragement from yuo both but if its the attention she gets from showing her naked body this may not be enough and you will just have to see what you can do to prevent it from becoming an issue your uncomfortable with fore your daughter. keeping in mind banning her will only make her want to do it more, taking her to a shrink - could help or could make her very angry and rebel making like much harder in general life and fighting will only make her scream or run away, so be open minded and try to remember being that age with those opinions of yourself and others. good luck.

Answer 3

ok i am only 22 i just turned 22 in aug. i grew up in the states system and foster care i do not recoment it.but they do offer alot of help and support for children. first you daughter is not a" bad kid" as some people will tell you she is a teanger who is going throug a lot. try and talk to her with out the yelling and the arguing if she thiks she is grown then talk to her like you would to an adult. although what she wants to do is wrong in many ways dont judge her. thers this thing in my state its called the scared straight program its free and its put on by the police department they have programs for boys and the girls its highly recomended and it beats the system. look to see if they have something like that in your town just please please DO NOT TURN TO THE "SYSTEM WAY" because they tell you that its only tempoary so you can get the help you need but its not. i went in when i was 15 and i dint get out till i aged out and by then i had so much rezentment for my mom till this day we are not the same she just need to know she can trust you and your husband.as much as its going to pain you to listen to her and what she wants you just need to do it. but at the same time put in you two sence but in a descrete way make it seem like its her idear and you just jumping on the band wagon and what ever you do dont go to the moury show and put her in the spot light she like the camra enought right now and thats what you want to get her away from. good luck
and just dont give up

Answer 4

let her learn
the old fashioned trick was if someone decided not to listen to the authority than let them find out on their own
if she wants to live her life as a skank don't encourage her and deffinatly don't giver her things
and since she wants to have a job as one that means you don't have to pay for her for she has a job
shes all on her own and she'd have to make a living that way since thats the way she wants
without her mom doing her job busting her butt when she supposevly has one
when people have a job they can do things on there own
someday she'll have some type of thing hapen and learn the hard way
don't give her a webcam she "has a job" so shes going to use "that job" and make a living out of it and learn how tough it is
PUT YOIUR FOOT DOWN

Answer 5

I know it hurts to intentially cause your child pain, but what about calling the cops on her next time she runs away or strikes one of you. In LCJC, tell them what she wants to do and they will try their best to scare her away from it. Better yet, do your own footwork and see where you can take her to visit to scare her. Tons of people have a story to tell and just the right one may set her straight. Good luck to you with this.

Answer 6

At least for now, let her know that what she is doing is illegal. She might be 16, but any guys with nude pictures of her would be guilty of posessing child pornography.

Answer 7

Just take away her computer and take her to some type of therapy let her know that naSTY FREAKKY GUYS ARE LOOKING AT HER AND FEELING PLEASURE AND ASK HER IF THAT DOESNT BOTHER HER TELL HER THAT MAYBE SOME OF THE PEOPLE SHE KNOWS WILL LOOK AT THAT ASK HER IF SHE WONT FEEL EMBARRASED.

Answer 8

How did she get this way, I wonder?

Sending her to a nunnery comes to mind.

Otherwise, you need some family counseling. Or an agent.

Answer 9

Why does she still have a webcam? My minor daughter would be locked in her room, with no phone, computer, or anything. She is IN YOUR HOUSE UNDER YOUR ROOF UNDER YOUR RULES.

Put your foot down.

Answer 10

call the police and have them take her for the week to scare her then take her to conseling something has to have happened to her for this behavior to come out

Answer 11

im not entirely sure but the webcam needs to go if she cant use it correctly